I think it is probably because of how dominant women have been throught history in the relationships Dynamics (rp as we know it is rather recent knowledge even if the concept of alpha has always existed).

I have noticed that even the most good woman I know, tries to be 'nice' to me in the way that she looks for me weakest spots to be 'nice' so that I unconsciously appreciate her. It's like women know what life is about, and they have no rules, they go all in to play the most dirtiest they can, they don't perceive this as being something bad, it comes natural for them to want the man to appreciate her, and you know we are men we are designed to appreciate women! So we unless red pilled, give in to their nice ways and end up getting hooked by them and we haven't even noticed that this situation has been created by the woman. It made me a bit sick to see how they think we are stupid and can not see beyond.

Any insights?