Having a hard time getting over this situation 😭

I was at the club one night got a few girls number.. It was a straight club. Upscale. “dark club” one ended being a TRAN .. i never met up/ chill with the person or anything but I found out it was a trans couple weeks later. I don’t remember how she looked like but we danced for like 3 sec.

3 weeks later she hits me up out of no where. Voice sounded funny on the phone. I was busy (thank god )

Did a little back ground check on the social medias using the number. Media’s. Something seemed off, pictures super edited, no past history...

Searched her number on google and picture popped up and it was confirmed.

I just blocked the number so fast.

Now I just feel violated and embarrassed. That no one tapped me on the shoulder or anybody said anything.. maybe no one noticed .. but it just bugging me. I’m straight male. Just feel like my manhood was played with. And it’s bothering me to move on from the situation.

Good thing about this I found out early. I never met up with her and didn’t anything with her but it’s like damn. When I go out in public and someone from that day recognizes and says something like ( you know that was a tranny right ) ima feel so funny Or even see “it” again.

Been with many good looking girls too guess that what happens when you play the numbers game

Guess my clubbing days are over for a while.

I guess I’ll just take this one to the grave.. you know how people love to joke in my culture.

I feel so stupid I see this happen on tv can’t believe it happened to me!

HOw can I bounce back from this mentally?