Hello, I don’t know if it really fits in here. Please let me know if it doesn’t, I will gladly remove it.

So me (19) and this guy (22) have matched on tinder 5 months ago. We met up and everything was fine, no pressure or anything. I was very different in a bad way back then and I have definitely made mistakes as in being nerdy, chasing etc. We have been talking consistently, him initiating 80% of the conversations roughly. However, a few weeks ago I got red pulled and started working on myself a lot more and improved a lot in my opinion. He seemed positive towards that, saying things like: “oh, you seem so happy now I’m so glad”. Though I felt like we were disconnecting a bit and on Sunday last week I asked about it and he told me he felt unable to keep up with everyone and that he needed space. No problem, I’ll gladly do that. Prior to that I had him initiate 90% maybe even 95% of texts, which became less and less over the course of a week i would say. I haven’t gotten any texts since then (we have Saturday now here) and I don’t know what to do. I feel like I have been kind of ghosted, though I don’t know for certain because he said he needed space. However I feel very upset, since everything was going super well and there were absolutely no signs of anything being wrong. What would you guys advise me to do? Should I confront him or just leave it?

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