Where I'm at now

theultmatecad · 2015-08-25T02:57:14+00:00

I'm not sure that discrimination against blacks is the same situation we currently see with feminism repressing masculinity. You are analyzing TRP through a lens of white/black vs intergender relations. There will be conflict when trying to hammer a lightbulb right?

Right to the core:

its my opinion that blacks and whites really are not that different. Men and women ARE wildly different in countless ways. Boys today grow up thinking equality when nothing could be further from the truth.

It's good to see a man have thoughtful questions on this journey. Anger is usually the unplugging man's biggest obstacle.

vonscharton · 2015-08-25T03:10:29+00:00

TRP is prejudicial but only as a sexual strategy.

That is the relevant dissimilarity between TRP prejudice and racial prejudice.

As a black man, or any man, you needn't worry what category others try to put you in. You pick the category, you put in the work, you win.

But you already knew that.

themanwhosaid · 2015-08-25T08:38:41+00:00

Current situation I'm surrounded by weak men. When I get a little loose in the lips and speak a little rp knowledge, the safe individuals I sometimes confide in say they hear a lot of hate, regardless of their affirmative feelings on what I'm saying. I'm not in the anger phase often, I love myself more than I love these girls.

My advice to you would be to preach the gospel at the right time and place. Wait for a moment when they know they are choking on blue pills and help them cough 'em up. Trust me many men will appear anxious when they hear about going against their prescribed roles yet they will still sympathize with you. That is if you know they agree with you, but are touting the blue pill line nonetheless. I would need a little more information to give you any new advise (plus I'm new to this whole thing as well).

Something bothering me about my RP journey are the broad statements made when it comes to aspects of women. The reason it bothers me is because these are similar to the broad statements made about black men & other minorities. For example: 1) AWALT. I understand that this is a mechanism of self preservation. It also helps to see women as people, not snowflakes in need of protection from the white knights.

I understand your concerns about generalizing people. What I understand is AWALT refers more to women's natural instincts. Hypergamy is a good example of this, so in general women will frame their reproductive strategy around this. You'll have to clarify what you mean when you say that statements using "AWALT" are similar to other broad statements about black men and minorities. Black, White, Chinese or Mexican people from these races are the same species plain and simple. However men and women are different and general differences can be observed.

Equality of the sexes means they are actually getting the upper hand. I understand this as if the focus of the different areas of life is getting more women to do things atypical of women, whether it be in industry or wherever, everyone else suffers because women are sought out to fill roles.

Your first sentence, no it has nothing to do with equality it is in fact superiority masquerading as equality.

People suffer for a variety of reasons. The main reason has to do with the fact that feminists are never actually satisfied with equality they are only satisfied with superiority. They then say that preferential treatment is equality. Other people suffer because often the women's merit is not taken into account. If people use the same logic to justify affirmative action for other groups they are still in the wrong pure and simple. The difference is women as a group will be pandered to more because we are told to do so.

Merit is key.

I see parallels in the equality statement, but as we've seen the inclusion of black people hasn't swung the pendulum in favor of black people.

Not 100 percent sure what you mean here.

As far as AWALT though, I relate it to the derogatory statements made about black men & how many people put me into those categories. Is this me trying to prove myself different than the no good black people out there or is it something else?

Women are not inherently bad! but we have been lead to believe (as a sex and as a society) that they have higher moral authority than men, that they are kinder than men, and that they are more compassionate than men ect. None of these are true, they are people and suffer from human imperfection.

I don't think you are trying to prove yourself. :p I am white, but I distance myself from ignorant, fat, gun toting crackers all the time! :] You distancing yourself from thuggish gangsters has nothing to do with race, it has everything to do with individual moral character.

moneyandsexislife · 2015-08-25T14:26:25+00:00

You must've just been spit roasted by Sanders & Hilldog since you're fine with applying broad statements to majorities.

10:1, we're not going to hear you bitch about how men of other races are mostly intimidated by you, or women assume you have an above average sized dick, or it's easier for you to appear more muscular and cut because the way your body holds fat, or...

You have two choices: use data to your advantage or keep losing, or another way:

Exploit your advantages, and deflect your disadvantages.
Be a whiny liblab bitch.

remember13 · 2015-08-25T08:46:16+00:00

I am a Romanian currently living in the UK. My skin is white, I come from a two-parent household with very strong family and community ties. I am privileged and I know that.

Yet many times I have been exposed to the same prejudice as you. I saw women gripping their purses tight when me and a Romanian friend where talking in our native tongue. I saw people give me bad looks when my accent was still strong. Nevertheless, I have learned a very important lesson: that decent people will give you a chance regardless of your differences.

Keep that in mind. If you are a high-value man another high-value man would most likely want to be your friend. I don't think you want to join the KKK or AmRen, because, sorry to break it to you, you will not get in. Yet the TheRedPill is truly gender/color blind.

Sure, you hear a lot of hate around hear, but that is just the anger phase. Also, we have women's best interests in mind at all times if you think about it: what is wrong in encouraging a woman to stay married and prior to that, don't sleep around. Also, most of that hate comes from a misguided love to the previous idea of what women were.

We are just pointing out some differences between the sexes that will bring value to and our potential partners' lives.

blacwidonsfw · 2015-08-25T03:32:54+00:00

Men and women are biologically and socially much different. A black man vs white man, one just has more melanin or whatever it's called.

Soriq · 2015-08-25T14:33:02+00:00

The answer to your issue is that ethnicity is not on the same wavelength as gender.

There is plenty of history, science, and evidence that point to the nature of all women. Their behavior stems from their biology as a gender. However, there is no valid scientific basis in saying that there are no good black people out there.

There is nothing in melanin that influences behavior. However, the potential to get knocked up and be physically drained for 9 months to endure the pain of producing a child who may possibly have shitty genetics and die, will absolutely influence all female behavior.

The issue with perception of blacks has to do with American history, class-ism, media portrayal, and urban culture, whereas the statement "AWALT" has to do more with biology.

I'd recommend you do a search on TRP for some of the studies on female psychology to further clear this up.

Title	Where I'm at now
Author	Bignmybrain
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	August 25, 2015 2:06 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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