To the ones that are married twice or more, what the hell didnt you understand from the 1st marriage?

MichaelSkarn_FBI · 2020-04-06T08:52:23+00:00

I’ve never been married, but I’d say the blue pill programming we go through, especially in early life, is very strong.

It tells us that getting married is a normal stage of life. It tells us to find the one. If that didn’t work, that wasn’t the one. The one is out there. There’s someone out there for everyone.

That sort of programming is very hard to overcome. Throw in biological urges, and how manipulated we are (read The Manipulated Man) and you’ll have many men signing the contract multiple times.

MovieReviewMgtow · 2020-04-06T11:59:12+00:00

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aniani04 · 2020-04-06T10:36:10+00:00

As humans, when we try something once, we stay skeptical about the reasons why it failed, could be this, could be that, maybe if I did X, Y wouldn't happen... So we try again, and again.
Here is the trick with women, their very core (the basic code) is ruined, the only one who had a chance to fix it was the father, if she's damaged after being with her father, she's damaged for life. Nothing can access the rotten basic code anymore, other than chad's dick.

Secondstoryguy6969 · 2020-04-06T04:53:06+00:00

My first marriage was mostly initiated due to an unplanned marriage, my second was because I wanted a family for my child. Neither worked out and there probably will not be a 3rd. I think absolutes are wrong but it’s gonna take a magical fucking woman to make me give up the freedom(and money) I have now.

2020-04-06T06:13:30+00:00

Women.

RosemanButcher · 2020-04-06T12:02:19+00:00

Marriage was a common thing in previous generation. Endorsed, encouraged and even praised by third parties. Similar to dating in our generation. The answer is the same as us not understanding from the first date and pursued others before finding peace of mind.

bpdloveoflife · 2020-04-06T15:08:22+00:00

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

scocasso · 2020-04-06T15:16:36+00:00

Same reason most of us have had multiple girlfriends whom we have fallen in love with...

"Well, she was terrible, I'd better find someone better."

"Okay, that one was terrible too, guess I'd better keep looking."

"Alright, another terrible one, they seem so great on the surface, WTF? Well, try try try again."

So, you try try try again, and then when you start chatting with other guys, you find out that they're ALL doing the same thing,

"Wait wait wait, so... all women are like this?? No fuck'n way. There must be someone out there in the world for me, there are like nearly 8 billion people on the planet... I'm going to keep trying, because I'm not a quitter."

Yet, try try try... and it seems like a never-ending losing battle, or perpetual bad-luck,

"Maybe I'm just not good at telling the difference between the good and bad ones, I'll try harder, be more cautious... fuck, that didn't work either, WTF?"

2020-04-06T05:05:11+00:00

MPAI

maximusnaya · 2020-04-06T16:47:56+00:00

Blue pill programming. Just that for me.

Title	To the ones that are married twice or more, what the hell didnt you understand from the 1st marriage?
Author	klajditoci
Upvotes	77
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Date	April 6, 2020 4:48 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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