[FR] A non successful FR of an old plate

thired · 2015-10-03T09:48:36+00:00

hard next. zero contact. block her number and social media.

Honestly after she acted bitchy to you giving you, in your own words, the "bitch sheild", then you shouldn't even have returned her texts when she replied two weeks later.

Don't act like if you're "on the shelf" waiting for her to remember you and pick you off the shelf, if she's the plate she needs to be the one waiting on the shelf.

[deleted] · 2015-10-03T17:23:50+00:00

I don't think she was just playing you for attention...something could have happened here but you blew it in multiple ways.

First, a girl you used to fuck late at night texts you late at night, and you suggest you hang out two days later on a Sunday? Gotta strike while the iron is hot, that's one of the most important concepts with women.

Luckily, she says now is a better time and you go with it. However, you haven't seen her in a year, you know she was acting like a bitch recently, but you drive over to pick her up? She obviously had a way to travel without you like uber, you should have told her to find a way over if she wanted to see you that night. Driving over to a girl's place late at night without knowing 100% you're going to get laid sends out whiffs of desperation.

In any case, you end up alone with a girl you used to fuck at 3AM, all dolled up for no apparent reason, who is happy to see you...and you go to a fucking coffee shop? Coffee dates are something you incorporate into daygame when you're leading a new girl around, you don't bring a former plate you used to fuck to a cofee shop at 3am on a weekend night.

So at this point her pussy was probably so dry that nothing else mattered, but she did go home with you and talked about how she had fun sneaking out and fucking in the past. But instead of just grabbing her by the hair and making out with her once you get in your door, you throw on your band's mixtapes and...talk more?

Of course she kept declining at that point, her pussy probably resembled the Sahara by this time. EVEN SO it sounds like she waited after you kinda kicked her out for you to just fucking put your Alpha pants on and make a move like a man.

Here's what should have happened: She texts you. You tell her if she wants to see you, she can find a way over. Maybe she shows up (if not, you play with your guitar or read a book or some shit, the outcome shouldn't matter to you). She hops out of an uber and knocks on your door. You open, see she's dolled up, and you make a move right there. Pull her in, shut the door, make out with her hard. Maybe she rejects you then you just kick her out right there, no wasted time on your part. But most likely? You'd end up with a girl that has Niagara Falls in her pants instead of the Sahara desert, like you ended up with in reality.

Maybe she was just using you to tell herself she's "still got it." But it didn't have to be that way.

UrsusG · 2015-10-03T11:29:05+00:00

How do you follow up on this?

Hard next, no contact.

Don't get suckered into another late-night, no-sex, validation-on-tap meeting with her.

Moolg86 · 2015-10-03T12:45:04+00:00

I think you made a mistake by trying to bring her back to your place after she denied the kiss.The situation reads strongly of bidding for emotional validation in the form of hanging out with you "just like old times".

I'm gonna echo the rest of the comments and say hard next/radio silence etc.

HS-Thompson · 2015-10-03T13:38:53+00:00

This is easy to explain. She wanted to know if she's "still got it" with you, but didn't want to cheat. You gave her the thing she wanted, she took it, and went home.

Title	[FR] A non successful FR of an old plate
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	October 3, 2015 9:16 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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