SUMMARY: Attention is as valuable as money. Do not give it away for free. It must be earned.

BODY:

Ever paid attention to a girl?

Interesting that we use the word pay as if it was money. It's not really money, but it is indeed a valuable commodity, and women crave it. So do Betas.

Alphas and Red Pill Men dispense and trade that commodity called Attention to whom earns it.

She is behaving like a good plate? Good. She earned your attention. Is she misbehaving? No need to talk rationally, treat her like a child or a pet, ignore her, and she'll do one of three things:

  1. Go away. For good. She had other Alphas/Chads/orbiters to get enough attention & validation

  2. Rationalize that you were not good enough for her anyway. (Aesop's The Fox and the Grapes fable).

  3. Go away temporarily, because she believes that she knows that you will be back, because she's used to guys always come back to her, no matter what. It's a power game. You as a Red Pill Man, do not fall for it. If you have Value that she craves, she will be the one coming back, and she will do anything, anything, anything, anything to get herself validated by your attention. This too is a power game. Do not fall for it.

There are no second chances, there are no rain checks, if she flakes, or she breaks up with you, or what not. You do nothing. You say nothing. Not even "OK", you stoically move on with your life.

Attention is part of your value, and just like money you would not trow it away, would you?

EDIT: Re-formatted according to recent guidelines