We have this girl that comes to our table because she is the girlfriend (I assume) of this sophomore guy that sits near our table. When she is there, they act totally different. They engage in this weird approval-seeking behavior. Yelling (acting powerful and strong), throwing shit and acting aggressive (acting powerful and strong), being overly emotional, and just trying to gain her attention. It’s crazy. I used to do shit like this too before I knew. They have no idea the control that they have over men.