How to answer Shaming?

godsknowledge · 2020-01-26T13:15:00+00:00

Ignore and move on

CHAD_TDK · 2020-01-26T13:18:46+00:00

Ignore. Absolutely 100% ignore.

If they escalate, report them for harassment.

CognPsycNeurScie · 2020-01-26T13:27:28+00:00

ignoring often leads to bigger and bigger insults until you might blow up and then you are the asshole.

Don't try to defend yourself, as soon as you do it you've already lost

roll your eyes and lead (!) by asking, e.g.: "what kind of answer/reaction do you expect to your bullshit question/behavior?"

Otherwise: stay cool! It's just stupid stuff anyway. Reversal of the burden of proof: ALWAYS assume stupid stuff is thrown at you until the opposite is proven. You will be right 80%. This mindset makes it fairly easy and results in having a laugh at the other person before you even think you are supposed to say something meaningful quickly.

jamocadyn · 2020-01-26T13:52:00+00:00

"I don't speak to fat women" (even if they're not fat--really fucks with their head.) "OMG that's an ugly zit starting on your nose." "Get lost wench, I don't care what you think." Why exactly are you speaking to women on philosophical issues like MGTOW? You're supposed to live it not talk about it. And why are you engaging with women at all?

Bokulence · 2020-01-26T13:35:43+00:00

Don't speak, look at them or acknowledge their presence.The more you speak the more they come back with shaming and bulling.

Let them think whatever they want to think. You don't need to prove them anything at all. Treat them like they are below you.

Woman are pissed when are ignored, they work when they get attention, when not, well this triggers they small mindset they are nothing.

For guys, white knights, cucks, pussy worshipers, do this too as well.

Become best of you. Set high goals and focus on them.

They will come to you with the sweetest voice to help them or do something to them.

2020-01-26T13:54:02+00:00

Just give them a smirk.

iamdexter12 · 2020-01-26T15:02:16+00:00

Be a wolf in a sheep Clothes. Never SPEAK your beliefs only act on them because no one will come at your rescue in a fight or argument.

The best way is to gaslight in an ' i don't give a fuck manner'

i.e Who hurt you? Why do you hate men?

unsurelife83 · 2020-01-26T13:17:09+00:00

This is my take - when someone is randomly insulting you (like that girl in your class), they are trying to seek attention. See, their expectation is that you would say something back, which would enable her so something even more drastic. This argument expands and she gets all the attention she wants.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-01-26T14:36:33+00:00

My tactic is not giving one FF. I give every human all the freedom to think about me whatever the hell they want. Their opinion doesn't have got anything to do with me anyway.

GarbageAccount115 · 2020-01-26T15:05:37+00:00

Hit them with the classic “ok boomer”

2020-01-26T20:12:48+00:00

This is typical teenage angst...

If they talk to you is because they give some importance to you.

If you talk to them, is because you give some importance to them.

You have to change you mindset, and understand people on their motivations, not on what you see.

Imagine im sitting in the classroom and a girl says "You hate women". Others are looking now and waiting for my next step.

Just ask: why do you care?

Same thing for "You a female hater" "Incel" "Youre Greedy", whatever.

When you ask why people care, they get disarmed. Most will try to diverge and say that, anyway, they don't care. Focus on the question and say you won't say anything more until they answer it.

When, not if, because they will, they say they don't care, just say: Then I just don't understand why you are wasting your and mine time. Goodbye.

ChangeYourselfToday · 2020-01-26T13:47:37+00:00

You just turn you head to another men and said, do you hear what she said to you and start laughing

thewho2326 · 2020-01-26T15:46:58+00:00

Ignore and totally think of something to train your mind on selective hearing we as men have this they will get tired and then they say something and look at them were you talking to me oh my bad this drives women nuts I've been a monk for two years this works

Bob_Bobbingtonn · 2020-01-26T16:48:18+00:00

Ignore... that's it. Let them think whatever they want; in the long run it has no actual bearing on your life.

Lookinginbetween · 2020-01-26T17:54:09+00:00

Agree and amplify!

trematar · 2020-01-26T18:01:34+00:00

Don't talk to them about anything unless your assigned a school project with them. Anything you say to a female can and will be used against you. They don't give a fuck about you, they don't care if you hate women, they just want attention. Don't give it to them. Act busy and ignore them.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-01-26T18:34:34+00:00

Go on the attack. Accuse of her being transphobic, start transitioning, start crying. You can probably get a lawsuit out of it too, although I hear Germany is tamer with their cash prizes

UndeadTed · 2020-01-26T18:49:20+00:00

Stop telling people anything to begin with, if they don't know you're MGTOW they won't make assumptions and jump to conclusions. If someone asks why you're alone, you just shrug and say you probably haven't met the right one yet. That usually derails anything.

For some reason nowadays some people feel the need to make sure everyone knows everything about them. They'll categorize themselves into a dozen little subgroups they 'identify' with. These people are just attention seekers looking to start confrontations and arguments. Don't be one. Its nobodies business what you do or think.

MrCarepig · 2020-01-26T19:35:18+00:00

Agree and amplify with a smile! Yeah im greedy as fuck! Always works

KUL-DANK · 2020-01-26T20:19:03+00:00

smile
ignore
leave

richlad · 2020-01-27T02:33:05+00:00

Germany is the biggest cuck nation in the world.

Literally, all German chicks are crazyyyy. Some have horse fantasy while other are self obsessed they don't talk with any dude in person but keep posting their egg like selfies (achieved through heavy filter use) to the point where they are unrecognisable.

Probably this is how civilisation ends.

AeternusDoleo · 2020-01-27T04:40:23+00:00

"OK boomer".

That argument is so damn old, you could make that retort unironically.

combs1945 · 2020-01-27T04:56:05+00:00

I don’t hate women, I’m just not a science denier.

antifeminist3 · 2020-01-27T06:58:13+00:00

No one can insult you without your permission. - Eleanor Roosevelt

If you are talking about men's issues and they do this, this is a [shaming tactic](The Catalog of Anti-Male Shaming Tactics) to emotionally manipulate you. Success will cause the shamer to feel as if she has won, but it is immature. You can respond with appropriate facts, ignoring the insult.

In other situations, If you do not let it bother you, then it doesn't bother you. If it doesn't bother you, you do not need to respond.

HoldenBalzac · 2020-01-27T21:18:07+00:00

Answer with one of these, loud enough for the classroom to hear.

I've told you twice. I don't want to go out with you.

Why are you so obsessed with me? (in an exasperated tone)

Synth_Kobra · 2020-01-28T04:41:20+00:00

What are you doing to attract that attention to yourself? Stop doing that and keep to yourself. Dont respond because it will purely serve to criminalize you and make you look worse. The good thing about this is its just a dumb classroom and temporary.

Pacifist11 · 2020-01-26T17:00:04+00:00

No, your an asshole.

Title	How to answer Shaming?
Author	daebass6
Upvotes	16
Comments	27
Date	January 26, 2020 11:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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