My brother is who I'd consider a simp. He's over 30 and is dating a woman in her early 20s. She has a boyfriend and he's aware of it. He bends over backwards for her and spends money on her he doesn't have. I remember he bought her $100 dollars worth of Christmas presents, and the week after he was begging my mother for food and money. What's funny is that he comes to my mom for help all the time, whether it's to sleep at her house (he's renting a room and doesn't like the roommates), uses her fridge to store his food, has left his shit at her house and won't take it (he moved recently). He makes my mom buy him food and wash his clothes and yells at her a lot, especially when she asks about why his girlfriend doesn't help him.

He has a history of completely throwing himself under for women and I just find it hilarious, whenever I try and talk to him about his relationship he just starts raising his voice and leaves. Poor guy, I almost feel sorry for him.

I know it must sound weird talking about a family member in such a way, but he's very rude in real life. He's basically destroyed his relationship with my mother and I through his behavior.