Convert me to this sub please

crityouallday · 2020-01-03T09:52:58+00:00

MGTOW isn't for you to hate women. It's about understanding their nature better. About hypergamy, lies they tell you. And how badly they age. But most importantly to strengthen yourself and career and achieve peace of mind.

Althoughw · 2020-01-03T09:54:27+00:00

Convert? We're no religion. Hate women? That's your issue. Most men here do not hate them, or harbor any negativity towards them. We just accept them for who and what they are.

Your post screams entitlement (you developed friendship so you felt owed by her). Leave those ideas at the door please.

With that said, go read the sidebar. You have all you need to "convert" there.

2020-01-03T09:53:51+00:00

Start by accepting the fact that they're all whores (99.99%), AWALT. Meaning, the best woman you can think of, once presented with the better option, she will 100% fuck you over with zero guilt. To accept that, think about a lion in a forest, if he sees you, what do you think he's going to do? Jump and eat you. Are you going to be mad at the lion? No, that's his nature, it's what he does. That is the case with women, cause all the problems start when you think she is "special".
Second thing is, never expect a woman to be honest, loyal and honorable. Otherwise, she would be a man.
A woman will promise you something, and she would mean it at that moment, but after 5 minutes, that no longer matters, because their reality is subjective and changes with their emotions.
If you have spent 1 year and a half with a woman, she already sees you as a second option or what we call "orbiter", she'll give her best shot to the alpha, when he fucks her over and moves on, she'll try to hang to whatever is left around, what would that be? You. Don't be that.
Men build, women are like leeches, all they wanna do is take. Once they can't take anything from you, they disregard you.
Despite what all women say, they need the man to be the rock, because they are the water (shifting emotions all day every day).
If you want to have the peace of mind, always ask yourself this question: Now that she left, what exactly do you miss? if you're craving female attention, you have a big problem to fix.

DangZagnut · 2020-01-03T09:45:58+00:00

Don’t get married, don’t commit, live for you is a good start.

For the anger, read some Marcus Aurelias.

selfism_mike · 2020-01-03T10:23:13+00:00

Isn't it astonishing how women are able to make our worst nightmares come true? When I think back the missiles could not have been more targeted. They have a sixth sense what to do to destroy us and they enjoy every second of it.

She knew what she was doing. Ghost her and move on.

Yolomas · 2020-01-03T11:40:14+00:00

Stop being friend with women, thats literally retarded.

fulgur3000 · 2020-01-03T12:02:32+00:00

do not orbit women you like.

AcriusGreenleaf · 2020-01-03T12:32:42+00:00

Success and/or living well is the best revenge. They all come back, but by then you already know her true colors and lose interest. You win either way. She did you a favour mate, you will realize that later. Just give it time and focus on yourself, your dreams and leaving behind your own legacy.

GreetingsFromErf · 2020-01-03T13:00:24+00:00

Let's start by clearing out the lies your mother told you. Just "being nice" and "being yourself" are not going to get you a woman. You are either attractive to them or you are not. Read Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy" for a better understanding. As helpful as that book can be though, it's still purple pill at best.

Mr. Glover means well but he disregards how complicit women are in these "covert contracts". Their goal is to produce as many beta simps as they can who will gladly fork over resources with no strings attached. They are not really "covert contracts" because women know full well what men want from them. It's a well orchestrated con game with you as the dupe.

You where likely raised to be a "Nice Guy" by your very own mother. You need to understand how profound that is. She lied to you.

Rest assured, the guy "your girl" hooked up with is not a nice guy. He told her straight up that he wanted sex and in all likelihood he railed her that night. He didn't wait around for a year and a half to see if something would happen.

Let this girl go. This one is over.

Now you have a choice to make. You can go on being an AFC, you can go "The Red Pill" and learn game, etc in an effort to more easily get women, or you can hang around here. I'd stick around if I where you. Learn to respect yourself, your desires, and your own well being. You have years of indoctrination to unwind and it will take a while to do so.

Krazyrobus · 2020-01-03T10:27:58+00:00

Wrong sub.

2ndacctacct · 2020-01-03T10:30:16+00:00

If you were friends with a girl for a year and a half she already didn’t have respect for you before picking another guy. But, you know what? She’ll probably leave that guy too, eventually. Don’t get attached in the first place because they’ll leave you at the first chance they can for a guy who has more to offer and with no remorse. It’s not a you problem. That’s the way they are.

kruggerand · 2020-01-03T12:23:15+00:00

At the core of the transition to be MGTOW you have to learn how to get the validation that your ego craves from people and things other than women. When you equate your own self worth to the affection and attention from a woman you are risking losing a large portion of your assets,mental health,time and even your life. Men have been known to commit suicide when the love of their life cheats or leaves them. Women are chaotic in their thinking because they base it from emotions rather than logic. You have no power to reason with a women nowadays to show them how you would be a good husband and provider because hypergamy has become accepted in society (muslim excepted)and is virtually unleashed. Some Mgtows practice things like stoicism, have male friends, pets, interact with nature, volunteer and mediatate to live a good life without the unneccesary chaos.

avdarth69 · 2020-01-03T09:58:04+00:00

Learn to be better at the things you love to do, find new hobbies, travel to places you always wanted to, set a goal, basically become a better version of yourself. And whilst doing all these stay away from foids. Nothing good ever happens by associating with them. They just come in your life and destroy it forever.

Free_Of_Will · 2020-01-03T10:01:14+00:00

We don't actively hate women,we choose to try and avoid them,to focus on ourselves and to highlight the bad behavior alot of women exhibit when sheltered by current society.

That doesn't mean we ourselves are perfect in any way but we try to do better by avoiding the negatives of commitment.

Trust_No_Bitches · 2020-01-03T10:33:20+00:00

Let me guess, she's in her 20s.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-01-03T12:45:43+00:00

I don't really understand what you're asking precisely, OP.

edgysecularist · 2020-01-03T18:29:20+00:00

Your first mistake was thinking you can be friends with a women, built for yourself now bro you are free from her constant nagging and manipulation

Title	Convert me to this sub please
Author	BrownPolarBear01
Upvotes	10
Comments	20
Date	January 3, 2020 9:40 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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