What turning point in your life made you less naive in your view towards women?

hittincervix · 2019-12-30T02:05:39+00:00

As soon as I went to iraq and my wife was on her bosses dick. Thought she loved me, turned out she loved attention. PROTIP: all women love attention from the right guy.

Got out, focused on me, have what many would consider success. Guess who stalks my social media, misses me, and hates that she made what she downplays as "a mistake."

flibbidy_floob · 2019-12-30T03:36:49+00:00

There was one girlfriend I had in my youth who was pretty great at the time. Of all the girls I've dated, she was the best 'unicorn' candidate. She had alot going for her - beautiful, bright, fun, kind, down-to-earth, etc. We dated for like 4 years and even lived together for awhile. She and I were basically 'scheduled' for marriage and kids. I mean all our friends just assumed we were on that track. I created a huge scandal when, as the pressure mounted, I decided to go with my heart and bail out - I just couldn't follow through no matter how great she was. I ended up travelling, partying, dating lots of other chicks, getting my career and finances together - it was great, and I know absolutely I made the right choice.

Anyway, here's the part where I went full mgtow ... Within two fucking months of us breaking up, I found out she'd already gotten engaged to some total loser at her job (who she'd always told me was 'nice, but we're just friends, don't worry'), and soon after that she was married and pregnant moved to the suburbs (and gaining weight, etc.). I mean, she just fucking went for whatever guy was the nearest, easiest option to give her the family/kids/house thing she wanted, didn't even fucking matter who it was. I couldn't believe that and was so glad I didn't get suckered into being the chump who filled that generic role.

[deleted] · 2019-12-30T02:49:09+00:00

Its been slow and added up slowly from 17 to 35. My highschool gf that took a year to have sex with me fucking a dude in her car soon after I left for college. Finding out a girl on POF let her dog fuck her and had pictures. Having a tinder girl answer her recent exbfs call while I was in her bed. She comforted him that she was home and that they'd talk tomorrow.

But honestly, what really got me was becoming Facebook friends with most of my hookups/flings. On FB, they don't look like the sluts I knew. Sure, everyone can spot an obvious slut. But once I saw the nice sweet down to earth profiles of the girls I had banged after seven lines of text, I realized they really are all like that. And even if they weren't, you can't spot which are which at all.

ParalyticPoison · 2019-12-30T02:18:10+00:00

Started playing around with the Online dating thing and saw so many patterns that broke my previous Disney Brain-washing. As well as seeing the clear reality of how many men have been completely destroyed by their parasite wives and girl-friends.

MoonshineGuy859 · 2019-12-30T02:43:33+00:00

Getting online and finding girls who were into the weirdest shit imaginable. A chick asking me to piss on her (couldn't do it). Chicks into all sorts of fetishes.

Then watching as women completely destroyed nations without a blink. Reading, online, about the history of the women's rights movement, contraception (the culture bomb) and abortion.

Hillary once said, "We are losing the information war."

Indeed they are. The internet has brought us all to a level we could never have obtained without networking.

peguy2000 · 2019-12-30T02:05:39+00:00

I just dont care, i limit my exposure to women and dont chase sex anymore aswell and ive just turned 26.

We are living the life

Islamrightaboutfems · 2019-12-30T03:30:52+00:00

"24 feels way to young to be feeling this way;"

Wish I knew when I was 24, even before that. It would be a much better life and I would be almost retiring now.

[deleted] · 2019-12-30T02:04:13+00:00

I'm 24 too. It took gradual insights and self-reflections over a couple of years to come to this point

insertchuuniname · 2019-12-30T05:38:18+00:00

Only took 1 girlfriend and 5 years of my life (2 years of relationship, 1 year of rage, 1 year of emptiness and 1 year of realizing) not bad if i say so my self, compared to the nightmares i read in these sub.

Flashmode1 · 2019-12-30T05:47:04+00:00

23 here. My parents becoming divorced when I was young and watching the divorce tear apart my father physically, mentally, and spiritually. How my mother just whored around bouncing around several men and partying right after the divorce and eventually become an alcoholic.

[deleted] · 2019-12-30T07:54:08+00:00

When the cops showed up at my work to serve a dv order based on false allegations.

[deleted] · 2019-12-30T09:41:23+00:00

It's seeing how women can never be satisfied, no matter what the situation is, they always need "MORE", that was the first hint in my life that you can't build something strong with someone who never feels fulfilled. Before, if she felt unfulfilled, she can leave, but won't take half of your shit, that kept them in check, now they have no incentive to behave.
After digging deeper, with many experiences and reading a looot, I came to the conclusion that the female nature is fucking disgusting, No loyalty, no honesty, no honor... What's there left? a moist hole?
Which makes you ask the question of: Why women have a hymen for? probably cause they can't be honest about their sexual past, and you shouldn't believe a word they say.

jadlkfjlakdsf · 2019-12-30T04:36:26+00:00

She money branched on me with the guy she told me not to worry about. I looked at all of my friends in their 20s, they all had their girlfriends branch on them. One of my wives turned out to be a lesbian. He had to pay for her lawyer to fight his lawyer. She never worked. He had to sell his condo to pay for her divorce settlement.

UnrelentingMgtow · 2019-12-30T15:13:40+00:00

I've been semi red pill my whole life and actively avoided relationships. I went Mgtow the very day I discovered it Dec 12th 2018. Got me over the oneitus I had for what I believed to be a responsible girl. She was supposedly a practicing Catholic and when it came to morals I thought females were definitely the fairer sex in that regard. What else to think though when raised by a single mother? Long story short I'm Mgtow Monk mode now and to this day haven't even kissed a girl. I have even yet to find a girl worth kissing lol. We must always be mindful that even with the ability of free will, observable reality Expresses the fact that biology seems to trump everything. Even if it's defected. Mgtow is the ONLY way to be sure. Self sovereignty has no opponent. Only eternal peace.

Razberryice · 2019-12-30T21:16:25+00:00

So I first learned about the red pill/Mgtow when I was around 21 or 22, but now that I'm 24, I've actually witnessed everything that was said and I'm so thankful for learning about Mgtow and true female nature because I was so naive, now I have to teach my brothers and cousins about it too because I don't want their lives destroyed by some hoe

Mort1186 · 2019-12-30T09:32:45+00:00

Dude you lucky you so young.

Wish i knew before.

gantz_au · 2019-12-30T14:01:31+00:00

It was a slow process of watching all the men around me have their lives ruined by women then educating myself on why this is all happening.

Buckinfla · 2019-12-30T15:00:35+00:00

Caught my wife messing around on Facebook with just about every Dude she had ever sucked or fucked.

PH_Bravstar · 2019-12-31T02:21:01+00:00

Been working on myself ever since. I do like the perspective you pointed out:

It's funny how women when they ask what hurt us and when we respond women, they get shocked as if all women are nice. And then when men hurt them, all men are bad.

But despite all that has happened, I don't hate women. I guess that's why I gravitate towards MGTOW over the RedPill, because I don't hate women. I recognize that there are good women and bad women, better women and worse women, women who love men and women who use men. RedPill slides to woman hating more often that not. I'm just here going on my own way.

I hope you're doing well!

Title	What turning point in your life made you less naive in your view towards women?
Author	mae1995111
Upvotes	31
Comments	35
Date	December 30, 2019 1:58 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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