There is no benefit to dating a single mother. Ever.

bieberblows · 2019-12-19T06:20:15+00:00

I remember a guy I knew was happy to date a single mom because it meant an already made family.

I remember thinking "Yeah. And you ain't in it".

Bourbonandcigars06 · 2019-12-19T05:42:10+00:00

True. She will get offended if you try to instill ethics, discipline, etc and is immediate argument starter even considering you are right in all aspects. Their feelings are not superseded by logic and ethics. They will require you to do all the fatherly duties without being able to say anything at all, even picking up food and drinks in their rooms, etc. it’s the snowflake environment and don’t think you can be trusted alone if child is a daughter

it’s easier to just stay away, trust this advise

captainsaveahoe69 · 2019-12-19T05:58:38+00:00

I've only ever dated one single mother, it was an absolute shit show. Never again.

BetterHimThanMe · 2019-12-19T07:50:36+00:00

I only dated 2 of them years ago, mostly for sex but got bored quickly. Many of em always talk shit about their exes which is wat puts me off the most. I mean, the odds are impossible all the exes were that bad or she makes decisions like a 5 year old. Or both, most are damaged beyond repair.

Now I refuse to date any of em.

bieberblows · 2019-12-19T06:21:49+00:00

Joys of dating a single mom

hrm0894 · 2019-12-19T09:06:12+00:00

My dad's friend married a single mom. He was the father when the kid needed rides to school. He was the father when the bills needed to get paid. He was the father when the kid needed love. He was the father when the kid needed help with homework. He was the father when there was no food in the fridge.

But the second he tried to discipline the kid, he wasn't allowed because he's "not the father." He divorced shortly after.

What sucks is that these men build genuine bonds with the kids, then they get a hard slap by reality that they're not really the father.

Single moms are the worst kind of parasite.

2019-12-19T05:46:27+00:00

I actually read some guy's story recently, that said he started dating a single mom, was very clear about not wanting to be in the child's life, everything was going well to start. But then, after a while, it was the family, both hers and HIS, who started to pressure him to make a bigger commitment to single mom and kid. To the point where they started treating him like the deadbeat dad. That made me realize more than anything that that's what would probably drive me away more than anything.

MoonshineGuy859 · 2019-12-19T07:37:10+00:00

Beat a federal indictment I caught as a result of a really fucked up custody case that involved her kid and her ex, not mine.

LGarrett_15 · 2019-12-19T07:44:11+00:00

Worst experience of my life. Being 21 dating a 29 year old was not the move.

2019-12-19T16:46:34+00:00

got one in progress. My best friend, was single living in a basement for free. He works for the railroad making great money. Had over 5 figures saved up and was maxing retirement. Hes 28 now, was 26 when he met her. Her, heavyset 36 years old piercings in her face with 2 kids from 2 diff baby daddys. She made him rent an expensive house for all of them and hes constantly taking them on vacays and everything else. He blew threw his savings and is paycheck to paycheck now and racked up over 10k in credit card debt. He used to be the cheapest man i knew, he told me the other day he doesnt even like her but doesnt want to be alone. Kids? treat hom like GARBAGE and get a free ride from him. Shes insufferable and ive only been there once since i helped move em both in last january. I wont come around. RIP. He is financially ruined, no longer contributing to retirement, and is in debt now with NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT

Gutsybuckel · 2019-12-19T13:30:22+00:00

If you really sit down and think about it, there's no benefit to dating at all. What are you actually getting as compared to what your giving? Is it balanced or not? What are all the bad things that can come out of this? How will this affect the rest of my life?

Just like any risky activity, you need to do a risk vs benefit analysis and come up with your own conclusion.

debanked · 2019-12-19T06:20:44+00:00

Yes there is, they'll teach you to never date a single mother

Wardedbilledanteater · 2019-12-20T03:01:54+00:00

I agree with not dating single mothers. But I would just add that there are some good single mothers who take care of their kids. They work. Some are professionals. This I will add is the minority. Most single moms are pretty reprehensible.

Tkx421 · 2019-12-19T11:15:29+00:00

That awkward moment when you find out they both been fucking the same guy.

user_miki · 2019-12-19T14:39:52+00:00

It looks like you find one and you want us to "talking to" you out.

Communismsmellsbad · 2019-12-20T05:34:06+00:00

The last single mother i dated ate ass all day long. I didnt stop her. No idea where she is now.

ZarBandit · 2019-12-20T06:11:58+00:00

Worked as a DJ at a commercial radio station in the 90s. I was in my early 20s. Got a few calls from a single mom (30s) trying to date me. Super desperate. So I pushed things to see how far she’d go because it provides entertainment if the on air shift is dragging.

After I played hard to get and some brief negotiating, she agreed to fuck me on our first meeting in her minivan, sight unseen. She sent me a photo of her in the mail to the station (her with her 3 kids). I had no intention of meeting her of course. She’d call up the women DJs and ask them about me. Even as a solid blue piller, I kinda felt bad for the kids having such an awful mother.

Side notes - Radio stations always have these super hot young chicks in the promotions dept. They don’t really do very much except provide eye candy when the station does some promotional event. They go along and hand out bumper stickers etc.

There was another station in town that had a popular male DJ and they had him take off his wedding ring when doing live events so the women listeners wouldn’t lose interest. LOL

Title	There is no benefit to dating a single mother. Ever.
Author	StormOfHoney
Upvotes	56
Comments	37
Date	December 19, 2019 5:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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