Looking for /r/thredpill's recommended resources on raising a daughter

be_tru · 2013-04-03T22:34:40+00:00

Disagree with religion etc. Not going to help.

I think the most important thing to know is that girls look at their father for what is good in a man.

2013-04-03T18:21:49+00:00

teach her self respect and not look for outside validation.

also, while she should take care of herself, she isnt the only one who matters in a relationship. its not all about her...

deep_fried_v-neck · 2013-04-03T18:14:22+00:00

If you're quote-mining, you've hit a good seam with those abortion comments.

If your question is genuine, the best place to start is with manosphere writers who are parents themselves, and are in a position to observe how children are being brought up. Dalrock has a daughter, and W. Price, Ian Ironwood, and Athol Kay are parents (I think, don't know if they have daughters).

iggybdawg · 2013-04-03T23:48:36+00:00

http://judgybitch.com/2013/01/22/a-teenage-girls-best-weapon-against-slut-culture-her-dad/

legendofpasta · 2013-04-03T17:33:31+00:00

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2013-04-03T17:59:52+00:00

teach her how to be feminine and teach her that fucking a bunch of dudes is disgusting and you'll only get thrown into the trash pile if you do

rulezero · 2013-04-03T20:20:32+00:00

Just an idea here. It could be that today's feminized society caters to women so much that they do not develop past the self-protective or conformist stages of ego development. Read the descriptions, and maybe the hypergamy, the hamster and blue-pill thinking could be seen as characteristic thinking at a lower stage of development. Studies have shown that hypergamy practicing women are unhappy. Therefore, rationally, women ought to practice monogamy, i.e. sticking with their partner even when there is a seemingly "better one". Values that motivate monogamous behavior are love, respect, and honor for their relationship, themselves, and their partner.

Therefore, I'd say do what is needed to develop their ego past the conformity stage. My mother is monogamous and has resisted the attempts of her friends to lead her into hypergamy when her SMV was the highest. She resisted this using her values.

Also, do you notice a trend in the increase of hypergamous behavior and the "valuelessness" of elementary education? More and more it seems that conformity is the goal, and when you regress your population to the conformist stage, and using statistical reasoning, we can assume that there will be enough at the previous stage to cause trouble.

2013-04-03T15:58:25+00:00

I guess the answer is raise her like a christian girl. Teach her to go for a provider instead of the bad boy's.

Colorful_Harvest · 2013-04-03T18:58:12+00:00

Okay, here is my advice:

Teach her how to cook. This is one of the most important things you can do. Most modern women can't cook, and a lot of them can't even do things like boil water. All they have to offer is their sexuality (vaginas) and income (meh). By teaching her how to cook, you're adding value to her as a feminine, responsible woman and future mother. If you don't know how to cook yourself, learn along with her. Ideally, you would have picked a wife that can cook well, so you don't have to shoulder the responsibility solely on yourself. Start her off slowly. For example, when she is old enough to hold a knife properly (maybe 6-7 years old?) let her cut vegetables that will go into that night's dinner (with instruction beforehand and supervision on your part of course).
Let her develop a nurturing side. One of the most common ways to do this is to buy her dolls to play with. There are ones that look like babies that are good. There are also other toys like cooking sets that are worth looking into. Other ways include getting a pet and teaching her how to take responsibility for it. Have a garden outside and make her plant and take care of some flowers or vegetables. There are too many methods to list. Hopefully you would be doing a combination of multiple things at once.
Have her on a chore schedule with an allowance reward system. Obviously no one (male and female) likes to clean and do chores, but show her that it's a necessary part of daily life. Reward her at the end of a week with $10 or less depending on if she properly did those chores and if she behaved that week. Having her handle some money at an early age would be a good way to teach her financial responsibility. You'd also want to slowly teach her things like how bank accounts and checks work.
No Disney movies allowed in the house. Pixar movies are good. She is not a princess or special snowflake. Don't treat her as such. Hell, no television allowed in the house either. It's a waste of time. There's plenty of things she can do to occupy her day other than staring at a bright screen.
Encourage her to read. She should be surrounded by lots of books at many age levels and covering many topics. Get a shelf in her room where she can put her books in. You want to develop her into a cultured, critical-thinking person that can make her own decisions...so basically not a feminist (lol). Teach her to accept biological reality and take pride in femininity.
Give her the Roosh talk when she is 14-16 years old.

7. This is a controversial one and I'm not sure exactly how I feel about this yet, but you may want to homeschool her. The reasoning is that despite all you may do, the (liberal/feminist) education system and peer influence may be too much for her to handle and she'll buckle into the Modern Paradigm(TM) like every other girl.

EDIT: I thought it over and I think it's better for your kids to go through schooling than homeschooling. The benefits outweigh the risks. As long as you have active agency over her life and guide her well, it should be fine. The only exception is if you are super religious, because they have networks and support that others don't have.

scottishredpill · 2013-04-04T11:53:32+00:00

Try this: http://verusconditio.wordpress.com/2013/03/28/raising-a-daughter-part-1-2/

2013-04-04T02:21:41+00:00

Well, here's a start.

2013-04-03T16:47:41+00:00

Is it before the third trimester?

VZPurp · 2013-04-03T17:09:13+00:00

Best of luck. I think I'd rip my hair out. The cultural virus will infect her.

legendofpasta · 2013-04-03T16:41:53+00:00

Go spend 3$ on a coat hanger and hope for a boy next time.

Jj, move to a rural community and raise her Mormon, catholic or Jehovah's witness. Don't ever for 1 second pretend you're not a believer, and meet Every boy she Ever brings over, and threaten him with the wrath of hell.

In the city, she will become a whore. Nothing you can do about that.

Gobbledig00k · 2013-04-03T16:31:19+00:00

Raise her as a catholic. Thats all i can think of.

Title	Looking for /r/thredpill's recommended resources on raising a daughter
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