I wrote this essay as a response to a guy who posted about how you should still attempt dating as long as you treat the woman as just another dude, don't pay for their meal, etc. At this point I've slept with over 60 women and been on god knows how many dates. I used to be a sex addict and knew a lot of other guys who also hounded after pussy like degenerates (many who put my numbers to shame). The one thing we had in common is desperation for external validation from women, thinking we were hot shit because we were getting laid. We were all universally douchebags at the time too, ditching our friends for a whiff of pussy. There is obviously a middle-ground between this and foregoing dating completely, but the point is that I have enough experience with modern women to realize how shit the odds are.

If you have dated enough women, then you know they are never worth it in the end. I've been on more dates than I care to admit and almost every single one of them was a complete and utter waste of my time and money. Even when you fuck them, when you've slept with enough girls, there is nothing validating about wrapping your dick in plastic and being the 10th guy she fucked that month off OLD. If you haven't dated enough women to adopt this mindset, then you are going to fail over and over in dating and eventually get jaded, because dating is far harder nowadays than it has been since we were competing with Chad Lightningspear for who could bring back the biggest elk. Either way, there is no point to doing it.

You are still a thirsty simp even if you don't recognize it, because you haven't reached a point of understanding the game---and a thirsty simp isn't going to be successful enough nowadays to get out of that mindset. You are doomed to rejection after rejection and ghost after ghost, being some girl's dancing monkey for the night, and no matter how much you say "I'm just going to treat her like the boys" you're still going to end up looking like a chump. No matter how strong your mindset, all those rejections from 5/10 hostesses who live with their parents start to pile up after a while. You might read this and go "man he's so wrong, I've been fucking some of these chicks", because you still think that sticking your dick in some wet starfish hole is really something to aspire to. If you're desperate for pussy save yourself some time and money and get an escort, opposed to spending hours of time and money (even if you are only paying for yourself) trying to get a girl back to your pigsty for a 15 minute missionary fuck

I listen to my female coworkers talk about the men they date with utter disdain on almost a daily basis---"how was your date last night?" "yeah...nothing special..." or "guys nowadays are psychopaths" or how they've been on thirty dates the past couple months and they've all sucked, or they complain about the guy acting in a completely reasonable manner because they can't comprehend behaviors different from their own that don't benefit them. Some of the men sound pretty fucking cool as well, and definitely above the league of most of these women, but they discuss them as if they're talking about the scum of the earth. If men publicly disparaged the women they date the same way women do about men constantly they would hang us up by our thumbs and report us to HR in a second. You see for yourself how worked up they get on tumblr and twitter about how men are tRaSh while losing their minds over us filthy misogynist incels who dare badmouth women

If you aren't Chad---or even if you are, but you aren't UltraChad compared to the other Chads she's become bored with---these women look at dating you as a fucking chore. You think you nailed the ball out of the park and got your hopes up while she's texting her five roommates about how you were another dud. I don't think a lot of these women are even physically capable of having butterflies or pair bonding anymore but instead of introspecting on whether its a problem with them, they think it must be because every single man just isn't good enough. They show up because they're also lonely and desperate and hope that maybe, just maybe, you happen to be that one guy that meets her ridiculous standards---but you never will be that man, and they sure as hell don't deserve the ChadGod they think they do. Have some self-respect