Summary: tl;dr As a strong male, confidence is a key component in your dating/sexual strategy. What is not discussed often is female confidence. Female confidence makes dating and spinning plates infinitely more enjoyable.

Now just for clarification let's discuss what female confidence is not: Confidence is not a woman getting sex from several men. This takes little to no skill or confidence. This is little more than self medicating with cock.

Confidence is not regurgitation of feminist rhetoric. Buzz words like, "patriarchy, rape apologists, misogyny", all carry strong negative connotations. This rhetoric serves as a blinder to hide a woman's insecurities and flaws.

 Confidence is not being showy or arrogant. This is another blinder to deflect insecurities.

Confidence is not independence from men. How many times have you heard, "I don't need a man", out of a woman's mouth, yet they seek the social validation of having a man to show off to the world?

Confidence is not being a standoffish bitch. This has become a feminist source of pride and a societal epedemic. Being a bitch is not a skill set. It takes zero creativity, zero skill, and little to no effort. Young children, even toddlers can be assholes. All they have to do is not listen, and throw tantrums. This behavior is absolutely repugnant and immature in a full grown adult woman.

Dating confident women will make your life easier and less dramatic.

Sociopathic, narcissistic, and BPD women have extremely low confidence levels. Avoiding those personalities will save you from a life of hell. (Trust me, I fucked up and married one. Escaping took a decade)

A confident woman is still a woman. She will still show her hypergamy.  That's to be expected. She will still have traces solipsism. Don't think she can bypass nature.

A confident women is more self aware. Confident women will fuck up and own their shit when you call them on it. A strong man's word will stop their hamster from running amok.

A confident women will embrace her femininity. She won't try to cut you down when you take the lead or when she's feeling insecure. She will embrace the fact that you can handle your emotions and her problems with logic and clarity.

A confident woman is able to take a blow to their ego and remain upright.

Lessons learned:

A few plates I've been spinning know about each other. If I want a plate around for something longer than a fling, she is required to meet my other long term plates. If she can't handle the truth, she's gone. This keeps me from needing to bullshit or watch what I say. It stokes their competitive nature and let's them know I can and will walk away if needed.

Know that vetting a woman this way is not a seamless process. You will get pushback and she will try to get you to justify why she has to do this. This is where you tell them, "you have to be strong enough to handle this. This is for your benefit. Facing the truth will make you stronger".

This vetting does make a plate more confident and vastly improves your SMV. As a disclaimer, don't think a confident woman is a unicorn.  She will still shit test. She will slip up and get jealous. And you still need to maintain frame. But her confidence will make things easier and less turbulent.