Wtf is wrong with me ?

lllDUNN · 2019-10-24T11:46:49+00:00

Stop getting into relationships and just have friends with benefits. It's much easier.

Phantom_Spark · 2019-10-24T11:54:29+00:00

You haven’t built your life where you can relax and enjoy yourself. You’ve mentally placed women at a core or as a priority in life. So you keep chasing even though it’s bad.

When you structure your routine and habits and interests where women are no longer needed or necessary... your outlook fundamentally changes.

[deleted] · 2019-10-24T12:13:40+00:00

You need to center yourself. I'm not talking about being selfish, but being self-centered. When you are the center of your universe, you allow these women into it. And there's nothing these women can do to drag you down. Because you can always drop her and find another woman.

To be honest, most relationships with females go sour after a few months. That's when women start shit testing you and playing their games. They do this because they are questioning themselves, "Is this the man I want to be with? Is he the protector and provider I think he is?" So they throw shit tests at you, and your reaction will give them the answer they seek.

So change your goal from a long term relationship to many short term relationships. Meet a new woman, enjoy her treating you like a king for a few months. When she starts shit testing you, drop her and find another woman. What makes this easier is dating multiple women at the same time. Who cares if you lose one? You have others you can keep dating. I find being open and honest with women about who you're dating is a turn on for them. They are attracted to a man who has options. You are using female competition anxiety against her, for your benefit.

Some men on MGTOW go monk mode, which is cool. Whatever works for you. If you decide you want to be with women, then just change how you perceive and interact with them. You will both be better off for it. I recommend reading the book called "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi. It can be found on Amazon for about $10. Many users on the sub recommended that book, and I completely agree. That book changed my life for the better.

Don't blow your brains out. You're just hurting because of the current situation. That pain will pass. As you grow older, you'll learn how to center yourself so these women can't hurt you anymore.

MassiveMD · 2019-10-24T11:57:31+00:00

You sound like you're looking for fulfilment in other people. You sound like half a person. Don't you want to do things? To create? To leave something behind? Why do you think that fulfilment comes from a vagina? A person's legacy is the way he touches other's lives, not biological material.

Ricky584 · 2019-10-24T12:03:22+00:00

Calm down. Don’t do anything stupid for a stupid reason.

Analyze the situation and yourself , find your way out , execute.

Marque01 · 2019-10-24T12:33:14+00:00

If you get bored after 3 months anyways, get a sex robot. At least you can turn it off and leave it in the closet after 3 months until you're ready for another round

Listen to the other guys on this forum. You've got the pussy up on a pedestal and you're wasting time jumping up to get it.

Ody_ssey · 2019-10-24T13:16:24+00:00

This is called voluntarily simping disorder.

Double_Cake · 2019-10-24T13:20:15+00:00

You sound as indecisive as a... woman!?

nonchalantfool · 2019-10-24T14:17:30+00:00

Wrong sub

Title	Wtf is wrong with me ?
Author	blackmesaengineer
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	October 24, 2019 11:44 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/dmf7mp/wtf_is_wrong_with_me/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/wtf-is-wrong-with-me.392279 https://theredarchive.com/post/392279

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