I'm low SMV, with a high SMV girl. Open to feedback

DoubleTappp · 2015-12-30T18:29:45+00:00

She's not yours; It just happens to be your turn.

Get comfortable with the fact that she is going to most certainly branch swing. She. Is. Going. To. Leave.

Continue to improve yourself but for now you are overmatched and some Alpha is going to come along. The way of the world.

[deleted] · 2015-12-30T18:33:51+00:00

What you need to do is make this about you and not about her. Criminals can pull megan fox hot girls, it isn't just $ that gets the girls.

What you are lacking is that irrational reserve of self-confidence. You're also lacking any sense of self-efficacy in how you're going about living this life.

Believe and invest in you. Keep lifting, lift better as a year is a long time to not see solid results unless you were really fucked up physically beforehand.

Do you and own your shit. If you're a high value male she'll do whatever it takes to keep you.

Again, follow your mission. This chick is not your mission, she's just a companion who, for now, is walking the path of life with you.

panchomanguera · 2015-12-30T18:10:37+00:00

you've lost already.... if she stays she stays, if she doesn't she doesn't but in the end you will still be you. if you dont feel your worthy enough then you aren't.

I dont care if you dress and look like a hobo on the street you still should walk into any situation/relationship with your head held high and the confidence of king, because YOU are the prize you may not be a 10 but you're damned working on it and she should realize that and if she doesnt then, bye bye

monsieurhire2 · 2015-12-30T18:29:45+00:00

Well, there's no 100% iron-clad guarantee that she will eventually leave you, the same way there is no 100% iron-clad guarantee that 6s and below won't be secretly getting the train run on them by hordes of degenerates at the Motel 6 when you step out for a beer with the boys. Seriously. There are no guarantees in life.

Also, your insecurity will only work against you. Don't worry about whether she'll leave your or cheat on you, because that is completely up to her. There is nothing you can do about someone's lack of loyalty or morality. Look at extremely high value men: they still get betrayed left and right. There is no safety and there is no protection from rotten people betraying you, or people becoming corrupted over time and turning rotten. Just steel yourself for that possibility; prepare a reaction; prepare for that contingency; that's what men do. But don't assume it will happen. Also, enjoy the time you have with her. Keep building value. Don't be defeatist about anything. You're worried about your career limiting your income potential? Then maybe you're in the wrong career. Also, that this woman has stayed with you for 11 months may say something about her as a person. She may actually value the relationship. Some hot women have low self-esteem because their families were abusive to them, or they were outcasts because the girls were jealous of them. And I know plenty of pigs who think and act like princesses, and they treat their men like shit. Anyway, good luck, and ENJOY.

[deleted] · 2015-12-30T19:04:34+00:00

"Shes not yours, it's just your turn"

There are no hacks in keeping an attractive women yours, even the highest SMV males have this problem.

I hope you don't live in the mid-Atlantic region because I know a girl I work with dating a schlub with a kid, her SMV is way higher than his, but she sure ain't megan fox hot. I would tell him the same thing though.

mrmeyhemn · 2015-12-30T19:13:18+00:00

so in your mind shes slumming and you are "lucky"?

lets go through the checklist:

pussy on pedestal? check.

oneitis? check

low self esteem (not realizing you are the prize)? check

stupid enough to think there are actual "hacks" to help you "keep" a woman? double check

yeah, you don't get to keep her, she will end up loving someone that deserves better than her. you will either realize that you are the prize or end up stuck in a vicious loop.

lesson you need to learn: you are the prize, she aint shit, there are "better" women than her in every aspect, shes not yours its just your turn.

nomorelulu · 2015-12-30T18:41:30+00:00

You have oneitis. It's already over.

[deleted] · 2015-12-30T18:35:13+00:00

She's not out of your league. She is in your league. Otherwise you two wouldn't have matched. The only thing, that will eventually lead to you guys breaking up, is ou stopping on self improvement and/or continuing the negative self-talk.

All the best!

Title	I'm low SMV, with a high SMV girl. Open to feedback
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Upvotes	5
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Date	December 30, 2015 5:53 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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