Young mgtow/ red pill Long time lurker first post . I still date around and enjoy sexually relationships with women. I’ve been seeing this one girl for a little over a year and she just tried the ultimate shit test . I produce music and make instrumentals and she tried to tell me I should get a “real job” and started comparing me to her best friends boyfriend who makes more money saying I could do that and we can spend more time together instead of me working all the time chasing my passion and dreams . It’s not like I’m a delusional loser the dream is in arms reach I just need to work and get it . I’m no bum I have my own place, car and my bills and expenses are paid money is just tight as I struggle and power through doing what I love. But she was basically berating me telling me I’m not a real man with a real job . She asked me do I care about this more then her and I simply said yes and she couldn’t handle the truth and threw a tantrum like a child and at this moment I realized my life could have been changed forever if I didn’t have this wisdom from you guys here . She’s a solid 9 and most men would have folded . 5+ years later when I’m a cucked version of myself working a job I hate she would have all the options to monkey branch to a better man before hitting the wall. Especially her she’s not to be trusted and I don’t plan to seriously commit to her, our first go around when I didn’t commit she got a beta boyfriend and I’m pretty sure she cheated on him with me but claims they were on a break . I’ll give her the benefit of doubt but my eyes are open . The nerve of these women for her to think that she’s more important then my dreams and I’ve only know her for a about a year and I’ve been making music since 14 . Lol the reach for power in the relationship is crazy even when she gained a little weight she tried to tell me I workout too much and I’m getting too big. When she realized I wasn’t falling for it she quickly dropped the 10-15 pounds like nothing. It’s crazy how many life’s have been ruined by women within dream killing , unwanted pregnancies, paternity fraud , child court , allegations , divorce rape and many others I’m sure I’m forgetting . Thanks for everything I found this platform in a weird moment in my life . I was so blue pill it had a reserve effect on me and I started seeing patterns that wasn’t adding up and thought I was crazy . Shame they are going to silence us I feel bad for any other young men or even older that’s in that weird limbo of realizing things because they will make it for difficult to find the information.