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[–]BobbingForBunions53 points54 points55 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only when it involves a woman.
That's why men should completely ignore women. Too much risk for too little reward.
[–]Stahlboden27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If withholding money is financial abuse why withholding sex isn't a sexual abuse?
[–]laptopdragon18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it is if men withhold it, but it isn't if women do it. are you new here?
[–]Patricijaobjectdude24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When a woman marries a man it's for his resources. If you refuse to give your wife money, it's literally abuse by law.
However..
A man marries a woman for her body, mainly sex. But we've decided that was way too abusive and made it so that women don't owe men anything anymore.
So you now have NO incentive to marry. But, you know, do it anyway just because.
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's actually a felony by law
[–]MonkModeKhan33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yep. So is coercive control. Not buying your wife something is punishable by law. Asking her to pay half of rent is punishable by law. Asking her where she’s going is coercive control and punishable by law.
Just go your own way.
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes if you have anything smart home like thermostat or smart camera that’s abuse and control
[–]OatsGYOW14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Financial abuse does exist, and is considered a serious crime. It just isn't anything that is being said here.
Financial abuse is when you are the caretaker of a disabled or elderly person, then use their money for yourself.
[–]WanderlustYouth2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That actually makes sense, but just like the word rape, women have contorted it so much that its original meaning is being lost.
[–]oirectine005 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are this fragile apparently.
[–]Yashugan001 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah its a term they came up with a few years ago. got to keep the women's studies' employed so they can pay their massive university debts, so they want into blogs, and "news"papers /s
[–]softbeats69 points70 points71 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
All I and other men are hearing is:
“don’t get into a relationship, there is no win and only loss for you”
[–]saharaharahara45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Imagine supporting your wife and kid entirely on your salary that you work hard every day for.
You perform really well at your job and get a nice bonus. You decide to treat yourself to a respectable hobby and buy yourself a guitar.
All of a sudden your stay at home wife starts getting pissy with you. You don't understand why so you turn to the internet for answers, maybe you are missing something.
The soyboys and feminazis come out from the woodwork and drill into you for daring spend your bonus on a respectable hobby like playing music.
[+]PhillipJGuy-27 points-26 points-25 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Sooo.. does the wife get a bonus?
[–]RoboMandrake28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, every day - her kept existence coupled with tolerating her not-so-minor foibles.
[–]GimmeDaScoobySnacks8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah lots of bonuses actually. Roof over her head, food everyday, not having to work to support herself and not paying tax/utility bills.
[+]vincewife-10 points-9 points-8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Taking care of children and keeping the house is work. She is not just getting a “roof over her head” for doing nothing
[–]GimmeDaScoobySnacks7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can also decide to not have kids, wont need to look after any kids if you dont have them in the first place. Housework is mostly easy today thanks to the technology available that even a single guy can do it.
t need to look after any kids if you don
[–]vincewife-3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s true that you can choose not to have kids in the first place or not to marry, but that is a different issue than the question of whether she does anything in their partnership for their home. I think probably if someone feels this way it’s better not to get married or have kids, which seems to be the MGTOW way
[–]frikabg7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
a bonus for what ? For looking after her child herself and her house? Funny how all of a sudden we have to pay people for looking after themselves O_O
[–]WanderlustYouth0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah she gets suck my dick and have a roof over her head
[–]PhillipJGuy1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn I wish that I were as lucky as she is
[–]JordanFirdBird234 points35 points36 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn these are the same bums that probably ask for their wife's permission to hang out with their friends or are just man haters.
[–]fwoomer25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t know if YTA, but you are a dumbass for getting married in the first place.
[–]Valk_Eir21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is why I think AITA is a stupid subreddit. Most people are biased in favour of women in general. And then there's the fact that the political climate is so skewed in favour of women it makes that bias worse. If you're a man and you do something for yourself, people will just call you an asshole. In other words, taking care of your own well being with the money the you earned is now violence in these idiots' eyes because it doesn't benefit the women. It's a clown world out there.
[–]Gloval14 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I live on my own and spend 100% of my money on myself. I'm an omega asshole and hurting women 24/7.
[–]castcouch3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my opinions, it's one of the worst threads out there.
[–]MachenSie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just added a NTA comment - might need some upvoting mitigation against the backlash :D
[–]Generris1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I feel the need to message the poor guy with the slim hope that he sees it. No intention of turning him MGTOW, I just want him to know that people think he's not the asshole.
[–]Saaren7813 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Replied to a comment on there where someone asked if his wife was also allowed to do that and I said "Well maybe if she actually used her degree and got a job instead of voluntarily being a stay at home mom she would be able to spend 5k on herself" then got downvoted to hell
[–]cherryantacids12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You know if it were the other way around they'd be calling for his head
[–]RoboMandrake6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I chose to interpret this as financial abuse in attempting to dictate to a man how he chooses to spend the money he earned. And yes, that is a form of domestic abuse. No one actually made her lord and master of the universe. Best to just skip the whole scenario and GYOW.
[–]Astral-Projector7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bunch of whores, cucks and gynocentric retards. Lel
[–]DarkDragonX1236 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Their minds are enslaved.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to know.
[–]odinhellum6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lets's make a sub called "Gayer every day"
[–]MikeRocksBoat4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't be a domestic abuser! #CancelMarriage
[–]elcheapo174 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You know. Conservative christianity has had a hand in all this. Sworn enemies of progressivism and Christianity, working together.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Conservative christianity
It's Protestant christianity mostly.
[–]StealthyBeeping3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it's not my money if I'm in a relationship, I'd prefer to die alone
[–]Uniqueinsult3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've got around seven bogies from, White Knight platoon Beta company in my sights. Requesting permission o fire, over.
[–]some1arguewithme2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
God damn communists...
[–]castcouch2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He's fucked. She's a stay at home mom, no job, and they have a baby. Rip life.
[–]CerebralAbrasion2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So if she spent his $5000 on purses that would be financial abuse too, right?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You know only what your wife wants to spend money on matters how could you overlook this fact?!
Why is anyone married...
[–]anti-hypergamist1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
YTA. Yikes sweaty don't you know that the women is entitled to everything and you're entitled to nothing? Um, current year?!
[–]Stahlboden0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very interesting how different are redistribution of money and sex
[–]krusecontrol910 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So glad I absolutely refuse to get married ever. It will always be my money now. I'm the asshole too and I dont give a fuuuuuuck
[–]sj204420 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Spending your own money is domestic abuse
[–]transcis0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even thinking that you have money that is your own is abuse
[–]BlckKnfe0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The world is going to shi
[–]markhamONT0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not entitled to my resources.
[–]Sillysocks-Realm0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Another typical double standard here.
Imagine the caption as ‘AITA for spending $5000 without the approval of my husband?’ Sure, you’ll get a few YTA’s, but most will say NTA and ‘It’s your money, you can do what you want with it,’ etc etc.
[–]IndigoXero0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
After reading all those AH comments I truly understand WHY getting married and starting a family is so absolutely STUPID on levels I haven't even considered. People are bashing this guy (who has royally effed himself) for daring to think the money he makes is his! This is wild man!
[–]Content_Not_History0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea, I responded with NTA in that thread, because it was his money and it was BONUS end-of-the-year money. If she wants more money, then she can get a fucking job.
[–]Yashugan000 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
sing with me gentlemen:
"what's yours is ours, whats mine is mine" x4
[–]ass-my-eat0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look how they shout and scream wrong think when...
Men.Grab.Their.Own.Wallets.
Sick to death of this cancer
[–]NERDZWIN-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cherry picker. Also you didn’t show the up/downs the comments got.
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