How to get past the desire for sex/a gf?

[deleted] · 2019-09-05T13:56:02+00:00

For me I spent 15 years in a horrible ass marriage. I dont recommend that route though. Just jerk off twice, then think things through. Post nut clarity is a real thing.

Notlikeotherguys · 2019-09-05T14:11:56+00:00

Spend 15 minutes on a date with a woman and you'll remember why your alone. Some things you cant unsee once your eyes are open.

uknoUto · 2019-09-05T13:53:10+00:00

PNC, not the bank

murph55 · 2019-09-05T14:02:03+00:00

I recently read a quote by Warren Farrell! "What a man must realise, is when he puts his penis in a womans body, he also puts his life in her hands!"
At no time has this been more true than in our present political climate! Any desire I had left went south right there!

JMD173 · 2019-09-05T14:04:54+00:00

You never will fully get over the desire because your programmed to reproduce as a man. Unfortunately, this is a maladaption in today's society. But you can learn to understand how society has programmed us being easily controlled sheep.

https://youtu.be/LDg70_cf-G4

eduardkoopman · 2019-09-05T14:13:25+00:00

How to get past the desire for sex/a gf?

The desire for sex, and the desire for a gf. Are both quit different for me.

The desire for sex, for me is more short term/flashes. And gone: after an orgasms, when tired, after eating, mid day dip, etc... I get past these; by just sitting them out, or with self help. Some do it with escorts I heared here, or some do one night stand things here I read.

The desire for gf. Is for me more the desire, for validation and desire to be loved and part of a team. I stayed single that last 4 years, by choice. Because I know what I want from a gf relationship, is very rare to get at the moment.
To go by each main aspect:
- validation. That one is ticked off, by being chosen by an attractive woman.
- being loved. That one is often never fillfilled; I can't get this. Since when times are rough, even for a little while, one often get tossed away already. That's not love, in my definition. There needs to be more a through tick and thin attitude. I understand one doesn't want to stay with someone that is a chronical fuckup basketcase; but i don't like that most will drop you with a temporairy difficult period (which seems the norm, atm).
- being a team. That one work together towards something, goals or whatevers. Having each others backs also, as a team. That one is often never fillfilled; I can't get this! It feels most like, it's more being extracted/depleted as a man, without an somewhat equal return.

Title	How to get past the desire for sex/a gf?
Author	david_2019uk
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	September 5, 2019 1:48 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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