Motivation Gone

countinginsolitude · 2019-09-04T19:33:01+00:00

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swankvagabond · 2019-09-04T19:18:11+00:00

When in doubt, beat the meat. Twice. No excuses.

Other than that, you need to be focused on the most important things that helps keep your life moving forward. And that is doing things. Don't overthink, just do it and you'll make a slow process.

Just be patient and GYOW.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-09-04T20:27:39+00:00

I think you might be depressed from the sound of it to be honest. I got out of a 2 week long depression myself the beginning of last month. There was that void in the center of my cheat that I felt before. The fatigue, the not wanting to sleep or sleeping to much, not eating, what ever brought me joy just didn't cut it, it feels endless.

What helped was letting time sort things out in my head but also taking it one step at a time. Light exercise to raise my heart rate like walking or even lifting weights helped to relieve that void, you don't have to over do it. Eating properly is important too as always.

This is a trying to take you down and you have to fight back. Remember, this is only temporary. Feel free to DM me if you want to talk.

dirtydog113 · 2019-09-04T21:49:56+00:00

Time , it takes time.

Allow yourself the time to deal with what you are going through.

Allow yourself time to deal with your inner monologue.

Its not wrong , its not shameful , its you being a human being. A meat-sack full of chemicals and electrical pulses.

If you dont allow time now to deal with it , think it through and gain control over your own emotions and mind , t can take a toll and come back tenfold later down the track.

EfficientBadger · 2019-09-05T01:55:18+00:00

Hormone withdrawal. When you were with her you have hormones surging. Now that you quit cold turkey your stringing out and need another hit. Your brain is trying to entice you with it was all sunshine and rainbows when it really wasn't. Fap like no tomorrow, hell cry over the death of relationship if you have to. But don't go back, your dignity is worth more than a drug high.

I know it sucks and I can't imagine the pain you feel in your heart. But just remember every day gets a little easier than the previous day. Keep pushing to get your happiness because nobody else will make you happy.

Mgtowindia0 · 2019-09-04T19:14:46+00:00

One thing - BLACKRAM313 channel on youtube . I tried all MGTOW channels but got healed by this guy ! Watch his videos you will move on . And once you move on dont fall back ! Enjoy life king size .

[deleted] · 2019-09-04T19:45:59+00:00

Gyms are full of people trying to upgrade. That's literally how I see the place these days.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2019-09-04T20:02:04+00:00

Give a strong think on the idea that motivation is fucking useless, and that DEDICATION is the shot you need.

An exaggeration, but motivation is just the bang that gets things started. Google Goggins and "embrace the suck".

GoodMan_Gone · 2019-09-04T21:04:19+00:00

TL:DR. Sorry. No tldr on this one. Don't read if you don't care. I can't summarize my thoughts and comment on this one.

No, your mind saying "I should be positive" is the same voice that makes you feel like sh*t. My advice; stop filling the blanks with running to the gym and think by exercising like crazy will help you. It won't. It's the same as trying to run 10 miles with a broken leg. Take your time to process your pain. As scary as it sounds: approach it, let it account for itself and poke through it's lies. You see: the thing is we men are wired to love a woman unconditionally. yeah, throw the simp card in my face anytime now. But it's IMO a plain fact. Fact is she can't love you back the same way. And not to start a women incel hate movement: it's a biological fact. So this breaking up puts you in a mourning process. It's exactly like the RP stages: denial, rage, bargaining, grief and acceptance. It's also the same if you would be diagnosed with terminal cancer. You have to sit this through OP. The sense of "pang/ hopeless" is in fact grief. Your mind saying "I should be positive" is denial. Going to the gym might even be bargaining (hoping that spandex imbecile thot will catch her attention) the sense of freedom is IMO already acceptance. Now the stages will jump to and back as you already might have guessed. But that's part of the mourning.

Allow me to try to step into your shoes. Please go ahead and destroy me where I'm wrong. I'm taking a leap of faith here. From my own experience.

You see yourself perfectly in your sexual/ social market place value. You're not the total hot hunk with a gazillion dollars on his account but you're not a total loser freak as well. You meet this girl who is clearly below your "level." And instinctively you know you are the guy who can provide her the best life possible for her standards. You didn't rush things, you were kind and gentle to her. And "things" worked out. Until one good morning she's saying "sorry. I need to work on myself. bye!" And here you are in the dark. As all men do: internalizing immediately! "What did I do wrong?" "How can I change her mind?" "she will not find a better man than I am!" Now here's the point where you can make a choice. Either you'll eat yourself up with those thoughts or realize it's not you who is batshit crazy. It's her. Because you are 100% right. Are you perfect? FFS no. But you are truly the best deal she could ever hope to find. But she is plainly too stupid to realize that. yes, she does. When she's 40, riddled through with a cave only physicians are politely enough to call "vagina" loaded with alien microbes, tumors and a barren womb. I've come to realize women are nothing more than pre stone age apes, with their minds craving for the Silver Back Alfa male ape while being able to wield a smart phone. They have completely missed everything on our development and level of tech/ society and knowlegde. Am i talking out of my ass? Please prove me wrong. IMO they operate on a totally animal level. They should have a neocortex like men have but thus far all I can see they're using that brainpower to take ridiculous selfies. They are that pathetic OP.

betterforitall · 2019-09-04T22:17:35+00:00

In addition to all the great advice, consciously focus on all her bad traits to counter what your subconscious will try to do to you.

I keep a mental list of bullshit I've put up with.

Bri-70 · 2019-09-04T23:18:20+00:00

2 weeks is not very long. A woman is going to jump on another real quick but you have to be a man and push through. Remind yourself you will feel better in time, because you will. Sorry to give you bad news that it is going to take far more than a few weeks.

Title	Motivation Gone
Author	0neManWonder
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	September 4, 2019 7:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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