What do you do when you long for some affection?

Billy1510 · 2019-09-02T19:45:56+00:00

Mate just have a wank eh.

ChadThundercock7 · 2019-09-02T20:20:36+00:00

To be honest there is nothing wrong with seeking some affection or dating women, I take you may be very aware of what are exposing yourself though...

Want unconditional love? Someone who will cry of happiness when you come back home everyday? Get a dog, you will not find more faithful companion in the world.

Or Are you in heat? If that so you know how to solve it with some cash, no strings attached.

TigPlaze · 2019-09-02T19:50:41+00:00

I pay a professional cuddlist to snuggle with me. We don't fuck or do anything else sexual. It's just cuddling. It makes me feel good. I get my fill of human touch and then go about my business. She doesn't live with me, nag me, or meddle in my life in any way. It's way less expensive than having a wife or girlfriend. It's even less expensive than a sex worker. We have a nice time together, including some laughs. It's probably not for everyone, but it works for me. I have the money and can afford it.

selfism_mike · 2019-09-03T01:28:50+00:00

Since I understood the nature of women my desire for affection from them evaporated completely.

So in my opinion your desiring for their affection is a sign that you didn't get their message yet.

Markvan_throaway · 2019-09-02T19:52:31+00:00

I just sleep with a woman, it's not that hard

Don't give them anything and send them on their away right after

DangZagnut · 2019-09-02T19:55:34+00:00

Can't say I relate. I'm a more "big spoon" type of guy. Maybe a pillow?

You don't want cuddles, there's something behind the cuddles you want. What is that thing?

It's not compression you want, you can get that from a comforter or blanket. So it's something else.

holidaysboots · 2019-09-02T21:21:50+00:00

What do you do when you find yourselves in that emotional state?

Embrace it until it goes away. With time it will subside into insignificance. If you're an introvert it would be even better for you long-term. Don't forget that the worst decisions are made in the spur of the moment.

rquasius · 2019-09-02T19:51:28+00:00

Get a dog, best friend. Find hobbies with like minded guys (you could find in meetup.com for example). Rub one out for mental clarity.

hockeyguy666 · 2019-09-02T19:52:45+00:00

I change my mind

NathanHollister · 2019-09-02T19:59:23+00:00

Whack off

darkmanilluminate · 2019-09-02T20:28:27+00:00

Get a good massage from a professionally trained masseuse. Not talking about rub n tug, an actual therapeutic massage. If YOU don’t sexualize it you get lots of healing touch and it’s actually a really healthy thing for your body, no matter your level of fitness.

I try to go about once a month. Usually you can request if you have a gender preference for the therapist, & if she’s not good, try another until you find a good one.

softbeats · 2019-09-02T20:30:31+00:00

A really good option for general affection/companionship is a dog.

Now, If you’re looking to experience the physical / intimacy of cuddling (alone), consider an ^{^anime} ^{^girl} body pillow.

The mind would ideally like you to fulfill your sexuality and intimacy needs naturally. Like, to orgasm you must have sex with a women and to cuddle you need a women to cuddle.

But here’s a little secret.

Your mind doesn’t actually care if the physical part in either case is a real women. If you go through the motions and have a physical substitute, your mind will give you a pass and release whatever chemicals it would have released with a women.

So, solo sex becomes masterbation and solo cuddling is done with a pillow of your best waifu.

GoodMan_Gone · 2019-09-02T21:05:22+00:00

For me the trick is simple OP. I am not in the 0,5% wet generating males (I think the 80-20 rule is delusional), But I chose to not let that fact get into hating females. On the contrary. Being with females actually gets me in touch with my own emotions. So I'm "using" them as emotional tampons as much as they use me. Women say to me "insert my RL name" you're a mystery. IDGAF. I know I can give them the best sex they'll ever have but I'm not a abusing physically aggressive alfa male ape. And guess what? That tactic is working perfectly. I get my female affection without risking STD's or the drama involved. And if I want to get my d*ck wet, I'll just hire one of my choice. Pay, enjoy and most importantly: leave. I let all the dating/ sleeping around BS garbage where it belongs. On the landfill.

misanthr0pe666 · 2019-09-02T22:27:50+00:00

Play Doom

[deleted] · 2019-09-02T22:39:27+00:00

Go run one out,twice then reassess. I volunteer at a soup kitchen a few nights a month as well. But that's about all the human interaction I want.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-09-03T00:28:32+00:00

Give it time and you wont need it or have an urge fornit. Just keep yourself busy. Its mostly in the mind.

cryptotim70726 · 2019-09-03T02:10:47+00:00

Get a puppy. They'll give you all the cuddles you need.

RHYMES_WITH_AGINA · 2019-09-03T03:24:26+00:00

Maybe your neighbors have a dog and you can volunteer to sit/watch it? Dogs are unconditional with their love

NYCCOOP · 2019-09-03T04:53:54+00:00

I have a FB/FWB, taking care of my sex need is preventive so that I don't need anything else.

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2019-09-03T19:15:07+00:00

Resign and strengthen the resolve for the rest of the day. There's no affection to be had, but that's ok.

Title	What do you do when you long for some affection?
Author	Invicgtow
Upvotes	2
Comments	26
Date	September 2, 2019 7:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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