IM DRUNK RIGHT NOW AND NEED HELP

Marque01 · 2019-08-29T02:59:05+00:00

You're 20 and using three different substances? What are you running from? Spill it. We're all eyes.

DangZagnut · 2019-08-29T02:59:48+00:00

You may want to take a week off from all that. It’s clearly not helping.

JMD173 · 2019-08-29T03:06:25+00:00

Time for some real hobbies besides drugs and booze. Will help you find some friends as well.

Self reflect for a moment... and think of if your own actions have put you into this position.

rquasius · 2019-08-29T03:11:15+00:00

First go to bed, and stop using that shit, clean yourself up. When your off that shit, then start setting some goals (exercise, read something, learn a skill).

Do something simple first, get out of the house. Example Take an hour walk everyday.

It's hard to offer additional advice to someone on substances, it's a futile attempt. I had alcoholic parents.

Krazyrobus · 2019-08-29T03:17:05+00:00

You're 20, it's tough at 20. So many unknowns and uncertainties in life.

Drop the substances, write out what you want to see for your life, break them down into long(5 year), medium(1 year) and short term (up to 3 month) goals. Slowly work to plug away at them.

Malahidael · 2019-08-29T03:01:19+00:00

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BrooklynMikey · 2019-08-29T03:21:06+00:00

Brother just know that nothing or nobody is worth your health and happiness. Live for yourself. Try to travel to different countries and see how other countries live. Enjoy life and know in the back of your mind that there are lot of good, understanding people like us MGTOWS out there. Stay positive and strong

Malahidael · 2019-08-29T03:00:21+00:00

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redshieldheroz · 2019-08-29T04:40:50+00:00

3 cures:

Meditate--turn thoughts into nothing. We are just small matter in the cosmos so dont stress things to much.

2.Cognitive behaviour therapy-- Force yourself to think logically to navigate yourself, be responsible on slaying your dragon of chaos, your 20, learn a specific skill that you can monetize. A expertise takes 10 years to fully master. You'll still young at 30. There was a stoic quote about "everyday you will meet with insolence, disrespect and chaos cause by people." But they are all products of the subjective mind.

Xanax --medicine for depression. Medicine cost money so this will be a last resort in my opinion.

Malahidael · 2019-08-29T05:34:06+00:00

That's the alcohol and drugs talking. Stop it and get sober. You're deluding yourself into thinking that drugs is helping you feel better, it's not and it never will.

Stop abusing yourself and get sober. Focus on yourself and get healthy. Go to a gym and lift weights, eat healthy food, get a hobby to keep yourself occupied.

You're not gonna get better if you keep making excuses. Look around, these men here are trying to help you and you keep rationalizing with this shit. Just stop and throw them away.

roxon89 · 2019-08-29T11:37:06+00:00

Listen to me.....

Do NOT mix alcohol and benzodiazepines. That’s a great way to kill yourself and it’s one of the most common causes of accidental overdose deaths.

Secondly, you are 20 years old. In what universe did you think you would have your life all figured out by the age of 20? Almost no 20-year-olds have their lives figured out at that stage so don’t worry about that.

Third..... stop using substances to make yourself feel better. That’s just a road that leads nowhere good. You have to learn to regulate your feelings and your emotions without substances. So take a walk, exercise, listen to some classical music, whatever… But don’t be using alcohol or drugs when you’re feeling down.

Lastly.....what happened to your job? Why were you fired?

ICBMasterbater · 2019-08-29T15:01:38+00:00

I feel the same. I’m a little younger but I’ve always been picked on and those who I thought were my friends always turned around and stabbed me in the back. I just keep to myself now and I’m a lot happier then I was before. I would recommend watching some Jordan Peterson as he is really helpful with things like this. If there is 1 thing I would say helped me the most is the idea you can always kill yourself tomorrow. It’s a bit menacing but even if you are at rock bottom you don’t know if it will get better so you should just at least wait a day. I feel for you man. All I can say is time heals everything and what you feel about your ex will change. It’s easy to remember the good times with your ex than the bad times. I would recommend gyow but if you really want a girlfriend I doubt the one you chose is the best you could ever get. There is always someone better out there. Good look brother

[deleted] · 2019-08-29T19:58:50+00:00

I have no idea what your first 3 sentences mean but you stop taking all that shit.

Its ok to be sad, its ok to realize that no many people really give a shit about you, its ok to lose and its perfectly normal to find out that most people are turd sandwiches.

Now you are only 20, in 5 years you will still be only 25 and in 10 years you will still be only 30.

1+1 is 2 quick maths, calm da fuck down and take a deep breath, throw that cloroxaplan5 in the trash, that dirty ass bong in the trash and that shitty fagardi in the trash.

Its good to feel like you want to die as it means that you once had the feeling of living. Now ask yourself what gave you that feeling, your ex, your massive 3 inch dick, your orgy friends?? If it takes you more than 1 choice to realize that it wasnt yourself than you will ALWAYS set yourself up to feel like shit.

Once again, you are a young piece of shit, use the time you have to your advantage. A young man with ambition can be deadly (in both a good and bad way).

Try and sketch out a realistic 1 year goal, not I wanna be an astronaut more like I would like to have a roof over my head. Then from that 1 year goal extend further into your dream and what it will take to reach it or come close.

A young ambitious guy within a trade is becoming rare, a young humble guy within a trade is even more rare. If you dont want a trade, look into getting certs go on linkedin and look at what ceos in jobs that youd like to have, have learned.

When your done figuring that shit out roll yourself a joint. Weed is great after a hard days work.

Its good that nobody wants to help you because at least you know what it feels like to really be alone.HOWEVER the feeling of rising up with the help of no one but yourself will make you harder than youve ever been.

All those drugs you takin are only masking the pain, let that pain flow through, get sad cry it out reach rock bottom and start to figure out what you need to do to reach sea level. You are only 20, time flies dont waste it being sad all the time its not worth it.

Dont waste your time talking to your ex as shes already on another 6 dicks each bigger than the last.

Dont compare yourself to others, comapre yourself to yourself and once you start liking what you see, buy a mirror look deeply at your own reflection and jerk off to your accomplishment.

Edit: saw that you are a welder so my trades comment stands, maybe look at going overseas to get some more experience and see the world. The languages may be the different but the welds are the same.

Also when i say to throw the bong out i dont imply to throw the weed. Just ask yourself, do I really need to be this high to enjoy being high?

MLG_Bob_Ross18 · 2019-08-29T02:59:31+00:00

Don’t say that no one loves you because that’s not true. Every one in MGTOW loves you, God loves you. I know things seem to suck right but they’ll get better. Be strong brother we’re all here for you.

acidodivino · 2019-08-29T03:03:38+00:00

brother cheers! you are free, nothing lasts forever, you freed yourself from that controlling psychopath; you are young, invest in you, better times will come.

McBendyLicktenstein · 2019-08-29T04:28:23+00:00

No women is worth your life. If you kill yourself you will not be able to prove her wrong and become a major success. Become so successful you have your pic of the liter with girls and she will be jealous. Here is hard truth man, she won't care if you diid kill yourself. She will just move on with her life and the next guy. I have seen it happen over and over with other guys. What she will care about is if you become so wealthy and successful shed have to notice. You're 20, you have so sooo much life to live. Everything can change in an instant. Five years from now you can be a whole new person and experience tons of relationships. At least you weren't married with kids and a mortgage. Stuck paying her child support and alimony, she takes your house, car, kids, and has the new dude in the house you're paying for, loosing most of your pay check to her. This happens a lot and has happened to a lot of men on here. Stick with the weed for a bit drop the other stuff especially the alcohol. There is a reason they call alcohol a "spirit." It will take you over and you will do something stupid like drive or text her harassing her and get a DUI or Domestic violence for harassment. DO NOT TeXT HER! She's not yours, you don't own her. Nothing you text her will change her mind. Move forward and keep reading MGTOW stuff and watch SandMan and coach greg Adams on youtube.

Stephan_McCockner · 2019-08-29T07:28:25+00:00

Try boxing. Once you get bit by the boxing bug it takes over your life. It helped me quit weed, and i wasn't even planning or trying too. Just came home too sore and beat up to even get up off my couch and go in the other room to put water in my bong and smoke up. Some people like the violent aspect of it and kicking the sh*t out of people, I like making ppl miss with my speed and timing and quick reactions and countering them and slowly breaking them down, A Floyd Mayweather style. If your into it you'll find out some pro fighter whose style and stance resembles yours, you study him and watch him and use his tactics in the ring. You'll meet cool dudes and it will blow your mind. I didn't go to college, come from an upper middle class family, who was disappointed I was boxing everyday instead of going to college. Now I'm making 1500-1800 a week personal training, teaching boxing classes, and the big money is private lessons. 20 years of boxing has turned my confidence well up. I take sht from no one (unless they have cauliflower ears, never mess with anyone, guy or girl that does lol) but also don't give anyone shit and am respectful to everyone i also had a terrible rage and anger issues when I started. Now Im like jedi monk, nothing makes me mad anymore, I don't drink, go to bars, clubs, and avoid shady places/parties. I'm always in the zone, I wear nike Jordan's everywhere i go, keep my peripheral vision and situational awareness is always 100%, im always ready do defend myself if someone attacks me. I'm in great shape and even (stupidly) hardened my knuckles and can hit brick walls as hard as I want so I won't break my knuckles or bones on bone/skull/elbow. Didn't pay off bc I have horrible arthritis But my main focus is footwork, head movement, defense, shoulder roll, timing, and counter punching. I seriously became like an autistic kid with a specialty in one subject, mine was boxing. Fortunately for me I always thought of myself as unattractive, had low self esteem with women, so never bothered with them. Once I got ripped and more confident, female students would basically throw themselves at me. I'm down for a fuckbuddy/fwb but I make it clear I'm not spending any money on them and our relationship is bedroon only. Stupid women are cool with it, married, in relationships, or single. I just have to be careful with who I pick. I never make a first move and make them all the work. I'm sure I sound like a chad but I'm Anything but... just a normal looking guy with a ripped (not buff) body that has access to lots of females that take my classes.

When I started I never thought I'd be where I was today. Taking a hobby so serious, dedicating my time when my friends were partying, training 4 days 3-5 hours a week, actually paid off. Im now Head coach of my boxing fight team on my gym (mma gym, so I only teach the boxers or mma guys who want to sharpen their boxing game) and we're on a 5-1 win loss record since I took over the fight team.

It doesn't have to be boxing. It can be jiu jitsu, muay thai, karate (I'd say ED parker kenpo, but will take much longer than any of the above to get decent, but put in 7-10 years and you'll be dangerous). Wood working, take an electrician apprenticeship, anything. The world is yours, grab it by the balls, tell it to eff off, and make it your b&tch. Mgtow for life

c4engineer · 2019-08-29T11:05:56+00:00

You think having friends is good? Ur completely backwards. You did have a friend, a girlfriend.... Where she now? Regular friends do the same shit, if they don't leave u they stay and give u bad advice. Trust me my guy, you are alone and that's the best way to be. Stay away from substances, start lifting, things will be made clear in time.

Scorpiontail · 2019-08-29T15:14:48+00:00

"Fat, drunk, and stupid is no way to go through life, son. "

Source: National Lampoon's Animal House; Speaker: Dean Vernon Wormer

Rent the movie, watch it, have a good laugh.

Then get your shit together. Plan your future, then (1) stop drinking, (2) stop smoking (anything) and taking drugs; (3) start exercising until you're exhausted, and (4) set a routine sleeping pattern (sleep irregularities disrupt your normal brain function patterns). Do it every day. Forget about women, and don't expect anyone else to provide emotional support to you, YOU are your job until you find other gainful employment, and even then, stick with the spartan plan for a good five years, then re-evaluate yourself.

Good luck.

VlogIt · 2019-08-29T22:37:46+00:00

Pussy is a hell of a drug. Get rid of it.

Mecha_Hobbit · 2019-08-30T01:15:00+00:00

I did this and had a breakthrough. It was an Skype meeting of Men.

https://www.drglover.com/coaching-groups.html

You'll need to read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" first though: $10 Amazon

https://www.drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy.html

Title	IM DRUNK RIGHT NOW AND NEED HELP
Author	Malahidael
Upvotes	3
Comments	58
Date	August 29, 2019 2:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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