I've been debating whether to post something like this for about a month. I recently went through the entire red pill process which was really rough for me.
A little history. Left US for Sweden 2 years ago, made the decision on the day Trump got elected because I was so upset. My idea was to explore what Sweden had to offer and to see if people here are happier and hopefully find a girl who had liberal views like I had at the time. Currently work at one of the top internationally known tech companies and am leaving the company primarily because of how ridiculous the PC culture has gotten.
Most of what I am reading in this sub is spot on.
Here's some stories with women in Stockholm:
1) Swedish date follows me home without asking, assuming she can just come over. Got upset at her because if I as a man did the same thing he would be in trouble. She was really confused. She also complained all the time about how much work feminism has left to do. An example of "male privilege" was the check being handed to me at the restaurant (instead of her). But she felt like she could just follow me home? She also complained quite a bit about how "rape" is a man problem and was upset at me for not being more upset.
2) Another Swedish date wants to stay over and sleep with me. Told her explicitly I didn't want sex unless she wanted more. She didn't care. Slept with me and then when done says "That was just what I needed, I am calling a cab." At the time, I was wanting more and felt super used. It was fun, but after explicitly telling her that is not what I wanted?
3) Spanish gal friend (a feminist) slept with another friend of mine and then proceeded to complain about how much of a "child" he was because he was short. She has made this joke about multiple other men as well. I've brought it up multiple times and she kindof acts a little sorry but then continues doing it.
4) Friend of mine at work moves in (sambo) with a Swedish girl. She proceeds to spend 5 years with him, while he pays for everything including buying the house. In Swedish law (which he didn't know at the time at the age of about 22) she is entitled to half when they breakup. He nearly becomes suicidal upon breakup because he then owes her like $90k. She takes all the furniture and leaves him with an empty house at age 27.
5) Belarussian girl I'm seeing (who I found out had been sleeping with a married man for three years and did not care one bit for the other girl ) was sleeping with me. Long story short, she ends up attacking me and breaking my hand over a really stupid argument. When I asked her "I want you to leave you just attacked me" she, I kid you not, flat out says "no I didn't" then proceeds to act like she owns the place. After arguing she asks "are you going to report me?" Well I freak out because I realize its a he said/she said situation and she could just claim anything she wants and in the "me too" era they would probably believe anything she says. So I grab my phone and video her leaving and never talk to her again and let my hand heal on its own because I am too afraid to tell anyone.
6) Out one night, a girl is hitting on me at a pub and we are getting handsy. She turns to her girlfriends in front of everyone and says "see girls? if you want to sleep with a guy its so easy, just go up to him and start talking and he can't help it he's a man he has to sleep with you". Got so pissed I left. Went outside. A girl is out there complaining about how hard women have it. She says men cannot understand what its like. I start arguing with her, fresh off the anger of the previous girls insinuation. She argues with me, saying there is no way I can understand and asks if I have been raped. I respond "Yes, I have". Her response, I kid you not, was "Well, it doesn't matter, because you're a man, and we women have to deal with it all the time."
All of this (and plenty more) happened just in the last year (2018). These were women I met through work, on Tinder, at bars, etc. So it isn't like I am meeting them in one place, and all of my guy friends here are dealing with the same things.
Ironically, every single woman I have met here complains constantly that none of the men want to commit and act super distant. This is exactly what you get when feminism takes over.
Gentlemen, women today are a mess. Everywhere. Be safe out there and do your best to become the best man you can be, even if it means avoiding the drama of women altogether.
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