Help me

[deleted] · 2019-08-16T12:53:06+00:00

Just masturbate, man; it clears your head. A lot of MGTOW still have their sex-drives. What's important is you're not trying to chase women and wasting your time with dates or whatever trying to get a woman in bed when this time can be used for self-improvement.

screwdeathlivelife · 2019-08-16T13:22:58+00:00

Meditation and celibacy.

Search "brahmakarya".

I have managed 4years without any ejac, apart from the occasional wet dream.

Life will feel peaceful and stress free, however if you see attractiveness and begin to crave it, or even imagine what it's like to partake then you'll wry dream that night...

The trick is to keep your mind balanced, and gently guide it where you want it to rest.

Peace my friend, and try not to worry as what will be will be.

Dorgdorg · 2019-08-16T12:44:42+00:00

You are already in full control

silakto339 · 2019-08-16T13:27:11+00:00

our society, in order to keep us under control, prompt us to solve our emotional problems with more emotions, because they're easy to manipulate. but you can break free from this vicious cycle. i am an atheist, but i must admit: in my 6 years of research the best sources i found were among hindu monks. that path toward self control is imho best described in two books from this library i'm linking you: "brahmacharya" and "mind: it's mysteries and control".

http://www.dlshq.org/download/download.htm

i can't stress enough the importance of their message. any question? do not hesitate to contact.

btw i'm not their jehovah witness or something like that, i'm just a college student XD.

it also have versions of each book where every foreign words have been accompanied by it's translation, so you don't have to look it up everytime. if you want them, just ask...and i recommend you to do so, sometimes they use a lot of sanskrit words.

TigPlaze · 2019-08-16T14:54:35+00:00

Get a flesh light. They're cheap and feel a lot like the real thing. Scratch that itch, then you're good.

Insanitystreaked · 2019-08-16T13:35:19+00:00

Imagine every woman has the same personality and looks of Dunham/Sarkesian etc

Might make you vomit the first couple times but you should be able to shrivel on command after a while

mecpaw · 2019-08-16T16:05:40+00:00

I'm controlled by biological impulse too much

wank it out of you

father_of_6 · 2019-08-16T16:06:58+00:00

Self-control and discipline is a series of everyday decisions. A deliberate action you can take in the right now is to keep a log. A small calendar that you can annotate when you "take an action", be that sex, masturbation, or amount of alcohol consumed. If you can see that you made it 4 days in a row then next time you can strive for five or six. I have been doing this for almost two years after reading about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (understanding why you act a way to control your actions and behavior).

MuleFool42 · 2019-08-16T16:14:05+00:00

Just manage it. Jerk off, go fuck some whores, then get back to work. Always be working on yourself.

Mgtowindia0 · 2019-08-16T16:50:52+00:00

You have your hand and your dick . Let them fall for each other !

Vaxel00 · 2019-08-16T16:54:35+00:00

Get a sexdoll.

NYCCOOP · 2019-08-19T03:15:58+00:00

You could google: how to increase libido, how to increase Testosterone; and then do the opposite.

Fapping helps, it's the post-nut clarity.

MrMagtow · 2019-08-16T16:00:40+00:00

How about you use your brain and try a bunch of stuff, and eliminate that which doesn't work?

Seriously, what's with all the man-childs coming in here asking for advice on simple stuff without even trying anything first?

captainsaveahoe69 · 2019-08-16T12:38:27+00:00

Get married

Title	Help me
Author	GenieInTheJar
Upvotes	6
Comments	20
Date	August 16, 2019 12:34 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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