This is the final chapter of my dance guide. I will be dealing with how to apply dancing to your dating life and some of the pitfalls to watch for as you search and join a dance studio.

 

CITY GAME AS A DANCER

   You've done your approach, you isolated the women. Now it's time to take her away and change venue... to another club/bar to drink yet more alcohol. What having a skill such as dancing allow you to do is give you a few extra options in your night game when you change venues.

   Once I land in a new city, I would always research where the salsa dance club is since this is the most popular type of club. Then when I meet up the girl for drinks, I would always pick a place near a dance club that has a social dance that night. This way, we can "accidentally" walk by a salsa club and "let's check it out". Once inside, I would then "dare" her to dance inside jokingly or just say "c'mon" and grab her hand to lead her on to the middle of the floor.

   Once you've started dancing, it gets really easy to get into one of the closer holds as someone who is an experienced dancer. The biggest tell of whether or not she's ready to fuck you that night, is how much of her tits she has plastered against your chest. Trust me when I say, that when you accidentally get a handful of breast when you are executing the exact correct lead that should have avoided the breast area, the women intentionally did it. Dancing is full of plausible deniability cases to allow the women and men to judge each other's interest in a no string attached way.

   If her SMV is 8 and above and have somewhat of a stuck up attitude, I would ask one of the more advanced dancers to dance with me and have a blast. This serves to undermine her confidence in herself and also to show how much higher your SMV is compared to hers in this world. Remember the the SMV is only applicable to the current world that you are inside of at the present time. So no matter how high her SMV is in the real world, whether she bangs you tonight depends only on her SMV NOW relative to yours.

   For those of you in a city for long term. I would have one club where you are well known and is a regular. This is for bringing the SMV 8+ girls. In this place, everyone should know you and all the girls should know that you are a competent dancer to the point where they'd actively come and talk to you. For the lower than 8 smv girls, you can just bring her to other dance clubs where no one knows you. Salsa is great for this as there are usually more than 1 in a city and the crowd is big enough that being known as a player in one doesn't carry over to another crowd at another studio.

 

VACATION GAME AS A DANCER

   There are dancing everywhere, especially when in one of those vacation paradises. Dancing allows you to connect with the locals without any language. It's perfect as you can't speak their language anyway. It is a tool to bring your SMV from your original country and express it in another country.

   Also, there are several occasions where a group of travelers that I am part of, gets invited to weddings, parties, clubs etc. This is where, knowing how to dance, will allow you to bed that girl in your group. Most people get anxiety attack when faced with the prospect of dancing in front of others. Most people get anxiety attack in a foreign and unknown environment. Being able to lead confidently and take both anxiety away cements your position as the rock in her life. But seriously, I am not sure how many years you need to dance to get to this point. For me, these occasions became chances of joy instead of anxiety when compared to others.

   Got co-workers who dared you and your gf to dance at christmas party? (without knowing you can). Occasions like these never bothers you again.

   Celebrating Christmas with a religious group? No worries, whenever there's celebration, there's dancing. Whenever there's dancing, there's plausible deniability for you to hold the women's hand and get touchy feely all under the pretense of dancing. "It's just dancing, how dare you think of it as something dirty." After all, how can something that all women love be dirty.

 

WARNING

   Do not talk about dancing when on a date or outside work. I have done this test several times. Talking about being a good dancer and all the championship you won does nothing for the tingles. Women, especially those who've never done partner dancing, will not understand how hot it is to have a confident men with a strong lead that sweeps them off their feet until their panty became soaking wet.

   Try not to discuss dancing in a business environment. Most business people will think this is unprofessional. If you want to let people know, let the women go around telling people that she dances (and by association as a couple, you). Some men are insecure with their masculinity and thinks dancing is gay. Some think you are not dedicated to your job. Most of these people have never danced or saw any real show dance in their life.

   If you do want to showcase your dancing prowess, do it as a show at the corporate Christmas party IF there's a big enough dance floor. For this, I would only recommend doing ballroom-standard as it is serious and glamorous enough to convey a higher upbringing and professionalism.

 

PICKING SCHOOLS

   I am writing this section strictly from a social dancing perspective. Competitive dancers have to play political games, so it is a very different matter.

 

Schemes to scam you

   For any school. If the teachers ever mention a package of private lessons and pressure those onto you, run like the wind. If there are more than two people present while they try to sell you the lesson, run. In some places, it is illegal to have two salespeople locked in the room with one customer. In dance studios, I suppose they skirt the rule because one of them is your teacher. Two very notorious chain studio has these violations down to an art. These are the two biggest american style (as opposed to International style) ballroom dancing chain studios in USA.

   Some other practices that are really bad are the pretty young ones. As beginners, you will usually get assigned these teachers. The school would grab these people off the street with no dance training. Some even proudly proclaims that they do this so they can "train them right." These are honey traps and you are their Beta Bux. They will also tell you that there's a strict, "no romance between teacher and students rule". Again, this is like a no relationship between client and stripper rule. You are their beta bux, they need a reason to fend off student's love advances. In reality, if you are good enough of a dancer (and especially once you surpass your teacher), it's all fair game.

 

Go with a male friend

   I've gone over why you should not bring a plate or girlfriend to lessons. I am not sure about female friends you are not interested in. I recommend learning dancing with one of your male buddies.

   Grab a co-worker, or a friend. Say that you want to improve your chances with women by learning dancing. It gives you a wing men for when you go out dancing and you won't be seen as a lonely creep when you do go out to salsa for those crucial first few dance practices.

   I recommend learning dancing with one of your male buddies. Grab a co-worker, or a friend. Say that you want to improve your chances with women by learning dancing. It gives you a wing men for when you go out dancing and you won't be seen as a lonely creep when you do go out to salsa for those crucial first few dance practices.

 

Class progression

   In the beginning, I would recommend all beginners stick with group classes and just ascend through all the classes till 2 or 3 levels below the highest level. That's about when you can begin to take private lessons one on one if you want to advance faster.

 

Teacher

   Look up your teacher's name and see if they appear anywhere in any competition ranking from last year. Teachers who are competing are usually more strict and teaches more technique. Their teachings are also more technique oriented. Non competing teachers tend to be more "clubby" style who is more focused on social dancing. Clubby teachers are hit and miss, not necessarily bad, but it's pretty hard to bomb with a teacher who is currently competing. You are also less likely to encounter honey traps.

   I recommend going to 2 different school and learn from different teachers once you've reached a level where you are going to be taking private lessons. Take lessons from both and get used to not committing to any one. Understand that, unless you are their pet student who they put their hope into, you are just a way to earn a living for them. So it is important to have a fallback for check and balances. Also to compare and double check whether or not one is bullshitting you or not.

   And with that, I have given back to the community of TRP.

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