[FR + Question] What Kinda Shit Test Is This??

Fnaut3187 · 2017-02-23T13:10:05+00:00

Okay. If she thinks your ass touching is inappropriate, then she doesn't find you attractive enough.

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Mangoinhand · 2017-02-23T14:17:13+00:00

Next! Sexual attraction is never negotiated.

Lift more weights

BMeyerBA · 2017-02-23T13:35:04+00:00

She's probably confused about whether she likes it or not, especially if you are at a school where feminist bullshit runs rampant. I'd say stay away from her if you truly believe you are justified in what you did. I'm new here and I agree with the first guy to comment, this isnt really a shit test, just an awkward situation that hopefully doesnt end terribly for you.

185poundsofhatredWIP · 2017-02-23T13:02:34+00:00

I'm pretty sure that's not a shit test. Soon there will be guys asking how to deal with the "I got maced and she called the police" shit test.

TheFamilyAlpha · 2017-02-23T13:50:03+00:00

It says to stop thinking you can touch any girl you want because they talk to you.

Don't be a fucking idiot and learn to read whether a chick is attracted.

This chick is not, you should've known that before touching her ass.

joseph177 · 2017-02-23T13:51:50+00:00

Your currency is attention. Quit spending it or it becomes worthless.

Goomich · 2017-02-23T14:31:02+00:00

but her tone implied, to the whole class, extrasuperultramegarape.

Next, avoid, record everything.

pirateninj4 · 2017-02-23T14:39:15+00:00

Everything before her getting pissed was you and her being BFF's. Friend zoned, move on.

JBrogrammer · 2017-02-23T16:55:16+00:00

Yes this is a shit test, but it's a pretty tough one. The reason I think this a shit test rather than a nuclear "fuck off" is because you say she has continued to "bust your ass". If she was nuking it, she'd have said what you did, to the whole class and made it sound like you're a total disgusting nasty creep etc. etc. But from the sounds of it, she didn't - which means she really wants you to just get on with it and pass the damn test!

When she called you out, THAT was the moment of the test. It was indeed for the best to not have responded to the whole class, that could have gone very badly - but you should definitely have pulled her aside/messaged her after school and told her off. You need to assert to her the fact that she is misbehaving and it's not okay. Think about how you might tell off a little girl for breaking something while messing around.

"Hey! Stop that you silly thing before you do any more damage!" cute girl becomes cross and says it's your fault anyway

At this point she will bring up the event and say "blahblahblah you disrespected my body or something yadayada you're a muhsojuhnist" etc. etc. In the interests of practicality and safety, you want to avoid any kind of conflict here. Again, think about how you would speak to a tiny little girl when you've accidentally hurt her, maybe you tripped her up by accident, you said sorry, but she's still very, very cross with you.

"Now listen silly, we've been over this, how about I get you a chocolate ice cream to make up for it?" cute girl shyly nods and says she wants 2 chocolate ice creams

Consider your facial expression when saying this to a little kid. Frowning until the second comma - you're telling her how it is. Then, in the last clause, you are forgiving her - you give a big, warm smile (again we are assuming you're a nice actually nice to kids lol :p). You're making her feel looked after, like it's not a problem, like it's all okay. This is diffusing the tension.

With this you take her for ice cream (or whatever you say to "make up for it"), don't do anything untoward, and it's all magically better - with the added bonus of her now seeing you as more attractive because of your ability to pass difficult shit tests.

As for re-escalating later, the door is open once you pass this test. Girls do not shit test men they have no interest in! Shit tests 101 right there.

Ritzen · 2017-02-23T13:47:19+00:00

You obviously misread the situation and she's not attracted to you if she's reacted like that. It happens. Move on.

0kool74 · 2017-02-23T15:14:14+00:00

kino some, and I follow TRP methods and slap her ass a little.

She is now pissed, she's told me never to take to her again or touch her again.

Yeah uh......i'm picturing a guy who doesn't rank too far up on the SMV scale trying to punch WAY out of his league.....and getting the proper reaction for his efforts.

Chicks don't go "scorched earth" if they're actually into you. Sounds to me like you read something in that wasn't really there bro.

WhorehouseVet · 2017-02-23T15:25:56+00:00

Ghost the fuck out of her. Lift weights and fuck other chicks.

Honestly I don't think she finds you attractive enough. Imagine if you're Zach Efron and you pulled the same stunt, she'd be sucking your dick like your dick is the fountain of youth.

superheavystarch · 2017-02-23T15:49:17+00:00

Lol good on you for trying to apply TRP in your real life situations. Keep trying, work on your FRAME, not on your MOVES.

However, you fucked the situation up by touching her ass. It crossed the line a little and gave her plenty of ammunition. The fact that she blew up means that she is milking it though.

Don't give her the attention and guilt that she wants, act like you aren't bothered and did nothing wrong (resist the urge to defend yourself, nobody is entitled to an explanation).

You lost, but touching her ass is not a huge transgression anyway. Reasonable people will forget and forgive, those who don't are worth nothing to you anyway.

Title	[FR + Question] What Kinda Shit Test Is This??
Author	lpicecream
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	February 23, 2017 12:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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