I think other people have brought this up before but every red pill mantra about holding frame decays in any form of long term relationship or marriage. In a traditional society men can be seen as strong and dominant (both things women want in a man, men do this either by provision of sustenance/defense or by force), however men are robbed of this role they have had for 1900+ years in favor of a government that is physically stronger than any husband (with their ability to lock him up and take away his freedom) from falsifiable claims and men are emasculated by a government who can strip them of their possessions to give to a wife even though she may be an unfit parent. Through child support and meddling of family courts men have been made cuckolds by the government and there isn't a damn legal protection or recourse for you. Go your own way.