So now I just heard my mother complaining on the phone that my father never takes her anywhere to eat "different" (expensive) food or to see "different" (expensive or tiring/boring) places and that he spends too much time working. My father is 55 and my mother 52, he works 10 to 12 hours a day and has to constantly travel between cities because his boss says so. He pays for EVERYTHING my mother wants and she complains that he arrives home, eat something, go to his PC to chill out and then he goes to sleep. She is so toxic that she could convince my father the earth is square and he would believed it. The woman is so toxic that she tried to turn me against my own paternal grandparents who basically raised me. Now I'm waiting for a job interview so I can afford my own place in order to leave home and find the safest, most hidden place so she cannot reach me in anyway and try to ruin me as she did him. That's one of the main reasons I went my own way and what I can learn from this is to never get married, because if I'm to marry someone like my mother I would rather be single and living alone for the rest of my life. I feel sad for my father but I must say that he's either living on some kind of "auto-pilot mode" or that he went through a brainwash or some kind of bribe to have been married to this woman for over 30 years. Stay strong guys and always go your own way.