Hey guys, not sure if exactly right sub to post this, but I guess it'd be interesting and helpful maybe to a few.

   

I've had a couple of experiences happen to me throughout these last couple of months that really gave me a lot of perspective.

A while ago, some guy asked to copy my notebook. I am not really that on good terms with this guy. I have no problem giving him the notes necessarily - but if he asks again I'm going to ask for something in return.

I was also stopped by a guy while walking somewhere, asks me to sign up somewhere, and kind of peer pressures me into doing something I really didn't want to do - but I wanted to be nice.

Today was the last straw really. I was at the bank and I wanted to open up a new account at a new branch. Well, not really. So, what I really wanted was information to start. Then come back later and maybe open account. She started asking questions I really was not comfortable with such as if I have any rental properties, how many credit cards I have, ... etc. Once I told her information I really shouldn't have, I felt the desperation sinking in. She was desperate to get me as a client. So.. what does she do... I don't know, what you call it? Sleazy fast salesman tactics?

   

Summarizing all of those experiences it’s basically not knowing how to handle situations properly. Hot girls get this more then anyone else. After a while it becomes annoying. Let’s cut the crap here, if you’re a high value girl.. or a high value person in general and you KNOW that…. And a low value person (Not a thread for insults, low value means not on same social standing or caliber or whatever.) is speaking to you about some BS or wasting your time or making you do something you don’t want to do…. What’s a response from a hardened warrior?

   

WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT????

LEAVE ME ALONE.

   

A more mellow response would be to just ignore you. So you can clearly see why after a while, this is what girls resort to.

   

Because... let's be grown ups here... it's not really about peer pressure.. but it's more about being nice... I'm an asshole and all but I prefer to be friendly. During social situations there's not a lot of time to think though.

   

So what is my solution to this (That high value people should adopt): I don’t think you should resort to cursing someone out or flat out ignoring them [Some circumstances.. you never know, but not in general].

   

I think that you have to take your time fully assessing the situation, not necessarily caring how long it takes you to arrive at your conclusion. This is something else with being an high value person. You should speak slowly and do things generally more slowly. If you’re interested, say you might be interested and get more information. If you’re not interested, just say no, you’re not interested.. “I’m not interested in doing that but thank you".. and smile. Don’t apologize. By the way sometimes I feel a little weird making people feel uncomfortable by looking at them in the eye when they're doing something stupid... not sure if you should make an effort to look at them in the eye the entire time. It makes you look more alpha I know, but it makes them obviously uncomfortable. What do you guys think? But actually now that I think about it, you have to. Because then people will say you don't look people in the eye... and it makes YOU look bad.... when really you weren't doing it to not make the person feel uncomfortable lol. So yes, yes you should. You don’t owe anyone anything. A lot of people want your attention, or want you to do things… is this true or not? Because this is true for me. Saying no is okay.

   

Don’t be mad when a girl tells you no. Become more high value instead.