Spring is here and in a couple of months, a lot of you will be graduating college so I once again talk about this very topic.

Yes I want to talk about this topic again because I feel like the toxic mindset of “life ends after college” and “it will never be as good as it was in college” is harmful and false to a lot of young men. At the same time though, there is this hyper aggressive push in American society to make everyone believe that college is the apex of the fun and finer things in life.

If you want to know if you’re dealing with a loser, see how much they complain about life after college and the kind of picture they paint.

Losers will convince you that life ends after college and it will never be as good as it was in college. For losers, college is all there is and there is absolutely nothing to life after graduating college. Life ends after college, life is hell after college, and life is boring after college. It’s not enough for a loser to believe this, a loser has to make others believe it to because misery loves company. A loser will paint you various doomsday scenarios about life after college that I will list out on this thread.

"Dating sucks after college, all the good ones are taken, and it’s such a waste of time”

While many will doubt a loser even got action in college, I will give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe the loser picked an easy major, got lucky and was initiated into a decent frat, and ended up getting laid here and there. Well, after college, you have to bring something to the table in order to date hot girls. Hot girls don’t care of you have Sigma Chi on your shirt, they want guys they are attracted to.

That is the truth to dating after college, hot girls are no longer suffocated by judgmental social circles so they go for guys they are actually attracted to instead of guys their friends want them to go for. So things like being handsome, making money, and having game start to matter a lot more. A loser likely has none of that going for him and so the loser goes on talking about how much dating sucks after college.

As a guy who did well in college and even the real world, the truth is that the real world has a much higher ceiling. You aren’t stuck with sorority girls like you are at your typical state school, you can date and fuck hot girls from across the world if you go to a major city. Even in college, you couldn’t easily sleep around as word got out fast but in the real world, you can do as you please if you are in a big city.

”It’s so hard to make friends”

What the loser doesn’t get is that in college, people were forced to sit next to him, talk to him, and make conversation with him. Due to being in the same dorm as him, others were forced to talk to the loser because no one wants to be openly rude. The loser was oblivious to the fact that most people found him insufferable but didn’t want to risk dealing with politically correct campus administration, so they faked being nice to him.

The same loser will go on to tell you how life after college sucks, how everyone is as broke and miserable as him, how people become boring, and how everyone “grows up”. No more parties, hookup culture, or any of that stuff right?

Only for the loser. Now that others no longer had to sit next to him, the loser could more easily be excluded from activities with a simple “oh sorry I am busy, real world stuff ya know!”.

The truth is that people these days party hard, fuck, and have fun in life well after college. When people were “forced” to be around each other in high school and college, it didn’t result in them actually liking each other, it resulted in them dealing with each other. I didn’t like most of the liberals I had sit in classes with back in college but I dealt with them by being fake nice.

Hot girls don’t stop partying or fucking after college, in fact a lot of them go hard after it.

Cool guys don’t stop doing fun things after college, in fact the money makes it easier for them to do it.

”Oh adulthood sucks, so many responsibilities, bleh! Kill me already!”

Now the loser will boast about how college was great because he could sit on his ass and play video games all day, let alone skip class. Adulthood sucks because he has to pay taxes and make rent, why can’t life be a vacation?

The loser went to college on his parents’ or the government’s dime and picked an easy major, all the while he complained about the Republicans in his liberal arts classes. You can see that the loser is no different than a single mom on welfare, he just wants to keep leeching off of others for as long as he can, complain, and create nothing of himself.

I found that for most winners, life was easier after college because they paid their dues in college. They took the rough exams, wrote the long papers, and they ended up with a nice job. A job paid them good money and they had money to spend on things they actually loved and wanted. Many of them were adults and had the freedom to do as they pleased while the loser never made it, he complained about his work week.

Most importantly, the adult world is about being creative, creating value, and making something of yourself through your wits, work ethic, and various traits which the loser simply doesn’t have.

You want hot girls? You can get hot girls.

You want the parties? They’re there.

You want the large social circles? They exist and plenty of people take part in them.

You want the fun? It’s there.

You just have to go out there and make it happen, the loser can’t do that.