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[–]blackedoutfast15 points16 points17 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
what is the psychology of this person?
guy with no abundance catches oneitis for a single mother who just flirts with him to get his class notes. girl graduates and no longer needs her orbiter. guy gets butthurt about it and makes a post on a pickup artist forum looking for validation.
[–]landon0421 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
just read long ass post that was meaningless, and this guy responds an essay thats longer than any post i've ever made to every comment.
this shit sad af, op reevaluate your life
[–]BigmuscleChad points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
dude it's nothing like how you're thinking about it lol
[–]Andyishandy4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She's obviously trying to use you. Don't you think if she wanted a deeper relationship she would be a bit more clear about her actions. She's using you plain and simple. She wants you to go with so then play your ass all the way and get you to pay.
yeah. do you think she has access to guys that are leaner, richer, better looking and more muscular than me though? I have a tough time believing that, if she does have guys better than me in all those areas, I'd be impressed
also what's up with her asking me if I have a girlfriend then telling me she doesnt believe me and asking me who i'm hiding. it's hilarious she accused me of hiding a girl when I didn't have any other chicks at that time
[–]Andyishandy0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She may not have access now but your the best for now until someone better comes around. She wants you to feel like you should be making her your top priority. She wants a provider
this all happened 10 months ago now. I am reminded of it time to time just like I've always remembered everyone that's attempted to steal from me/disrespect me. Pretty humiliating that she expected me to be a provider.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plenty of chicks want a man as a provider. Don't get offended about it. Typical female behavior.
[–]1nonthaki9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You are a retard. Try to Never become a full retard. You assume too much And think of yourselves too highly.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Oh my God. I am going to find you, op, and beat your ass.
All fake bravado. Fake masculinity. Fake tough guy act. Let me make it clear. I am 100% certain that you would fail MISERABLY. the fact that you even posted something like this, makes it blatantly obvious that you are an utter FAILURE when it comes to fighting, athleticism, or strength. You may want to get that sorted out buddy. I doubt you would even approach me to my face. Typical internet coward.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'll take your word for it 'BigmuscleChad,' because that name in no way implies fake masculinity or bravado. Keep orbiting post-wall single momas who never touch your penis.
[–]Blemper1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She ceases to be a better alternative to save time.
This guy is a freaking troll. Getting all worked up over some single mother with a lot of debt.
I'd love to see you try kiddo :)
[–]theONE8436633 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
April fools isn't even here yet wtf is this shit OP?
I understand oneitis and all those claims man I'm doubting I had oneitis based on how oneitis is described as people that worship the woman, spend money on her, have extreme love for her and etc how do you explain someone that invites herself to meet me, then cancels 2 hours later? like how would it benefit her to do that? especially if she is doing it AFTER behaving desperately just a few days and a week earlier? how can someone go from claiming to want to marry you, then 2 days later, do this "not coming" example mentioned above. something isn't adding up there
[–]theONE8436631 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Lol are you seriously trying to understand why a bitch flaked? Flaking is what bitches do it's normal behavior. She just felt like doing that for whatever reason.
People are claiming oneitis cuz you're spending too much mental effort on a bitch. That's how oneitis really works. You don't even know it's working.
And about wanting to marry you... She never explicitly stated that. She just thought you should come to X country bcoz it's a cool place.
I'm trying to understand why she would go from being super desperate to flaking. Usually with flaking they do it right from the start. She asked me "do u have a girlfriend" I told her "no" She looked nervous/laughed and shook her head in disbelief saying "I don't believe you. who are you hiding"
after that, she told me how she's going on a road trip for 5 days and how "you should come with me it'll be so much fun". Just me and her, in her tiny car.
I told her no to that, then 2 days later, she spent 5-10 minutes telling me all the tax and living benefits of living in X country. She was basically trying to convince me to come to that country. She specifically mentioned how she wanted to live there permanently a year or two after graduating, and how "You should come to X country too!"
I brought it up with her later that day and asked her if she knows about any tax benefits for businesses in that country since my uncle owns a business that I'm a part of as well. She said she doesn't know, then blushed, laughed, and said "why do you want to open a business with me". i told her no I was just curious. then the smile kinda faded off her face, lol.
Anyway, after all those events was when the not coming thing happened. So again it's like she went from extreme desperation to "flaking" in a library building on campus. It seems strange to me. It also seems like she insulted me/tried disrespecting me by saying that. People say to deal with it and don't do anything when the girl flakes you if you want the girl. What about if you don't want the girl? Isn't it acceptable to then at some point, insult her for her disrespectful things she did?
[–]theONE8436632 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Simple answer: She is a bitch who got carried over by emotions. That's it. You can disrespect her whatever but don't obsess over this shit.
alright. thanks. It all happened about 10 months ago. I think about it randomly, maybe every week or few weeks I remember what happened.
thing is though I am not able to talk or flirt with any girls any longer. it's too risky to be used for an ego boost. If they approach me and talk to me I'll talk to them but still can't/won't flirt at all.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
She had 35K in debt and you are worried about what she thought of you? You really are a pussy.
why/how's that related to being a pussy? explain man I wanna know. when you mention 'pussy' i think of a guy that gets taken advantage of.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well you were getting taking advantage of. She used you for validation and she got what she wanted. She decided she was done with you and here you are many months later, writing a long ass post about her.
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[–]Occams_Stubble2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Conceited-Monkey2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You seem obsessed with a girl who was in some of your classes who you had supposedly had no interest in. You have devoted a great amount of attention on your every little interaction with her. You have now posted on a forum about the denouement of this pseudo relationship. One can conclude you do not have much going on in your life and you were a lot more emotionally invested in this relationship than you want to admit to being. It is good you mention psychology. You might wish to seek psychological help.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
OP, why the hell are you thinking about this single mother so much? You caught oneitis and you haven't even fucked her yet. Pathetic.
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
You wrote a freaking essay about this chick. You are thinking about her too much. Forget about her.
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Chicks flake on guys A LOT. Whether it's to feel powerful to reject a guy, she's too busy or she's not interested in you. Like I said, FORGET about this chick. If she flakes, next her.
In fact, if she had gold digger qualities, why are you so fucking concerned about her? She's a single mother who is a gold digger. Seriously, you are an idiot for even typing all this up. She obviously won by getting into your head. She probably forgot about you already.
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Lots of chicks can go from acting interested to flaking. Heck, I have had chicks go from loving my sex and wanting me over, to finding me creepy for thinking about coming over. I have had women I met at a bar ask for my number, then not respond or keep saying they are busy. Your problem is you talked to a gold digging, single mother and thought things would go great.
LOOK AT YOURSELF. You are spending a lot of time on this, that could be dedicated to other more important stuff. You are acting like a pussy. Lots of chicks flake and will continue to flake on guys.
Honestly, it's not worth your time to try and call her out on it. I've tried it in the past and nothing good comes from it. She will be able to get in her head and have the "last laugh." You will feel worse off than if you just moved on. You are too fixated on this. Stop acting like a pussy over a gold digging, single mother.
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Jesus fucking Christ. Why are you still worried about this shit? Honestly, you telling her she looks 40 and all that probably won't matter in the grand scheme of things. Plus, maybe she did find someone better looking than you.
I can't believe you wrote a freaking long essay of a post, over some gold digging, single mother you haven't even banged. There is always gonna be someone richer, leaner and better looking than you. To think otherwise is delusional.
Women have PLENTY of options. Just move on. It's pathetic you made a post about this. You still have feelings for her. If you didn't, you wouldn't be writing long posts and answers about her.
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[–]RedAnachronism1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Don't think so much. Trying to understand an individual's specific actions will eventually drive you mad.
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[–]RedAnachronism0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I would say that a disrespectful/flaky woman, especially a single mom, would be particularly desperate. If she was a catch she wouldn't be desperate or disrespectful.
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[–]RedAnachronism1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Once again, you're trying to find reason behind her actions. She doesn't operate that way. Most people don't, really. For the amount of time we spend thinking about ourselves we are still following animal patterns 80% of the time.
She's acting based on what someone commented on her Facebook or the last text she got. It has absolutely -nothing- do to with you, and worrying about it is now costing both of us time.
Let's stop.
[–]fstrizzy1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow..... You never even fucked this woman. Why? Why did you write this long ass post talking about basically nothing at all omg I can't believe the world right now hahahaha. People are analyzing shit this hard that they make super long posts on TRP about a shady single mother who didn't text back a few times. Holy shit you put some thought into this too.
[–]fstrizzy1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
It honestly seems like you might the one with the multiple personality disorder man. You've put a lot of thought into this minuscule situation that happened ten months ago. None of what she did is relevant. Why does any of this matter? You've analyzed this to the point of where it makes me think something's seriously wrong with you.
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[–]fstrizzy0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Man you've overthought this situation way beyond what any normal person should be doing. Move the fuck on and go bang somebody. You really are coming off as insane and delusional. Why are you thinking so much about yourself and your wealth and looks and all this other bullshit. It's weird and childish and super insecure sounding. Best of luck dude you're gonna need it
[–]fstrizzy1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I just think you've over analyzed the situation to absurd lengths. This is one of the most minimal interactions I've ever heard and you have it drawn out to such a complex and ridiculous lengths. This is something I'd expect from someone with obsessive compulsive disorder and mania.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
This OP is pathetic. I keep telling him to forget about her and the fact he has oneitis. He hasn't even banged her and is responding to my comments with freaking essays. This dude should be forced to change his username to OneitisBob
[–]fstrizzy0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm kinda worried for him lol. He legitimately seems like a psycho.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Look at the replies to my comments where I tell him to forget about her, move on and how he DEFINITELY has oneitis. The dude is thinking about a gold digging, single mother he hasn't even banged. I even tell him a real CHAD, and I'm not one yet, wouldn't be obsessing over a single mother, let alone one he hasn't banged.
I'm worried about how he acts about chicks he actually had sex with. He's over analyzing this situation and I told him that. This long post should have been deleted. Adds zero value. It's not even a good or funny rant, like some you see on TRP.
Man it seems like you already did write out every single thing she said. You are obsessing over her man. Cut it out. And never obsess over any chick like this again. I've had severe oneitis before but it was with a girl I lived with and had sex with every day for a year. You didn't even kiss this girl dude. You need to take a look at how ridiculous and obsessive your behavior is.
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[–]fstrizzy0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't know what your deal is man. This is one of the more obsessive things I've ever read. You need to stop thinking about this. You should also stop pursuing any woman for a while and work on your mental state a bit. Best of luck dude.
[–]chocobear4201 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You just wrote an entire post about a person you didn't even hook up with. Go home.
[–]roomrider0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Normal". There you have it. Do you really think any woman, let alone a single mother in her late twenties, can be considered normal in our logic? NO. And I know the people who replied to your post are being awfully harsh but they are not wrong. It's best for you to just move on with your thoughts. There are weird people everywhere, if you always try to take your time to figure them out, you'll never get anything else done.
Leave the figuring out to the shut in omegas
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