I´ve read a lot of stories here that are helping me to see that AWALT and that my story is not much different from what usually happens, I hope this help me get back on track. I just created this account and decided to share my story because I have no one to listen to me and give me some advice. Thanks all for this great community, I´ll try to be concise.

I met my wife eight years ago, we fell in love very quickly and three months later she was pregnant, some months later we were living together and everything was going just fine. We lived a relative happy and peaceful life for almost 6 years, I used to do everything for her, I paid for her studies, I cleaned the house after work, I took care of the dishes, we went out for eating frequently, I was the one who took care of our daughter, the only times we fought was when she wanted to go to clubs and I just wanted to stay at home. Then suddenly she, in her words, got "tired and bored" and decided she would only do whatever she wanted to do, think more about herself and started being egoist. We lost connection and affinity, started to have fights every week, life became hell. I got crazy at this point, seeing a dead bedroom and a total lack of affection in every single way, started looking at her social media and her phone, finally I found out she sent a message saying she was kinda missing one of her professors. We had a big fight of an entire night, but she swore that it was only that message and she just did it because she was very sad with our relationship, I forgave her but we were still fighting and then she went to stay at her family house for a while. At this point she said we were not married anymore, we would be dating to see what would happen. For some time it worked, there were no more boredom, we had a lot of sex, went out together, had a lot of fun and someday I asked her to come back home (huge mistake), she agreed and moved back in. At the exact moment she came back home, she turned into another person, sad all the time, complaining about routine, didn't want to help in anything, no more sex, not even come to sleep in bed, I needed to sleep because I work early and she stayed watching TV all night and sleep on the couch. All this happened within a year, I spent one fucking year crying for her, doing everything I could to save the relationship and our family. It didn´t work, we talked and decided to separate. Now we´ve been divorced (no rape, she didn´t want anything, I´m lucky) for 3 months and she is already dating a younger guy from across the country she met online, he came to stay living in her (parents) house for a month, she´s living her teenage dream and I´m pissed and very sad, I can´t do anything about it, I can´t even ghost her because of our daughter, I have to talk/meet to her every single week. I just think after all I´ve been through, all I´ve done, I´ll never want another woman in my life after this. I still don´t know exactly what to do but I´ll try to go my own way .