[AITA] Wife hates giving blow jobs. Married man tries demanding a courtesy blowy after a hard work day, gets shut down, apologizes and blames it on his friends. Oof.

justletmemakeanacc · 2019-01-16T07:03:19+00:00

He called in sick from work so he could stay home with me all day

This wife stays home all day doing nothing and she can't give her husband a blowjob. Stupid entitled bitch.

Aza383 · 2019-01-16T05:24:28+00:00

Hmmm not too cut and dry till we know all the details (and I'll usually always err on the man's side). Obviously if he eats her pussy she should absolutely suck his dick. If he never eats pussy and she wants him too then I could understand her point of view.

abhilash1991 · 2019-01-16T06:41:58+00:00

Best solution is to stay single and keep this fucking drama away from you. Ger a hooker or something and get done with it.

Also I think that if she's not comfortable then he shouldn't force her, BUT then this should be a two way road and she should not get cranky and she should respect his choice if he doesn't want to do a position that she wants him to do.

Again, better stay single and just don't get into all this headache. Marriage comes with all kinds of shit.

gtowerthrowaway · 2019-01-16T07:03:19+00:00

Takeaway: marriage is no guarantee of regular, healthy sex.

willrapfordrugs · 2019-01-16T09:51:05+00:00

Women who don't like giving blowjobs are bad ay them anyway. I literally had my best blowjob fromna woman when we had split and I said her blowjobs were not all that great, it was like she was only doing it out of spite.

Guy should just go to a hooker. She would probably cheat if she he was being selfish in the bedroom in any way.

Astral-Projector · 2019-01-16T09:56:16+00:00

Well.. If there was a Chad or a Tyrone that gave her the tingles she would suck it like a got damn popsicle.

[deleted] · 2019-01-16T15:53:17+00:00

Actually a big factor I dumped my gf was because she was so lazy in bed like even if she did give head she supposedly could only fit the tip and did not try to go down or put effort into. It rubbed me the wrong way and in my head it was a red flag cause during this period she would try and text me when I was off from work with ,” can you bring me lunch?”. Also she wanted to always talk on the phone so I came to the conclusion she just wanted two things from me food and to be a emotional tampon. This was after thanksgiving. So I thought to myself did I really want to be buying her food with the laziness she displays and Xmas was coming up did I really want to be buying her shit. I said no and I promptly dumped her but I used the female line of but we can still be friends and she was like I can’t be friends with my exes and has never got in contact since. Boy being single now I do not miss the constant talking, texting and being pressured to buy her food or shit.

gigasimpdeluxe · 2019-01-16T12:10:56+00:00

I don't think she should be obligated to give him blowjobs whenever he wants. If she hates blowjobs and he knew this beforehand, why did fuck did he marry?

trumpisaforcedmeme · 2019-01-16T12:26:06+00:00

This guy needs a trip to Vegas a year, blowjobs are rarely enjoyable if the one giving it isn't in some way enthused.

JaxJags904 · 2019-01-16T15:14:52+00:00

I mean she doesn’t HAVE to give him a blowjob, and he shouldn’t DEMAND it.....but for decks sake. If you love this guy, he works all day everyday and it sounds like she just stays home. Help him out.

Then in the flip side you see the females who get FURIOUS if a man (spouse specifically) won’t fuck them when they want to.

Morphs_ · 2019-01-16T19:02:45+00:00

She would gladly give a bj to Chad. She's just not sexually attracted to her husband. Due to the marriage she can just slack because her husband has no leverage anymore.

tramese · 2019-01-16T21:03:41+00:00

when husbands can be charged of rape nowadays....still wanna get married bro?

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