That's heartbreaking and I can't blame either the boy for wanting the man that's been his father his whole life to come back or the man who just found out his sons entire life and his relationship was a lie .
She's destroyed both of their lives for some fun with the side dick .
It’s such a double edged sword. Like fuck. Paternity fraud has got to be one of the absolute worst things you can do to a man and the offspring, boy or girl.
Shit should be up there with murder. No women should feel safe after having that out there
I bet , Dad should just MAN UP and endure the fact he's spent years of his life caring for a child under false pretenses . Can you imagine all the times people said " He has your eyes " or " You look just like your fathers" that the man now has to think about and replays in his mind over and over ?
Being a father is more than DNA sure but not when you have been told your kids whole life that they are the product of your love and relationship with someone who was secretly getting fucked behind your back .
His whole relationship and entire 17+ years has been a lie .
I'd run off and disappear too . to say I'd be shattered is an understatement.
Absolutely. Many of the commentors act like the guy should just brush it off and pretend like nothing happened. As if every time that man looks at this kid he won't just be reminded that the relationship that he had was made up. But no, its all his fault for how this kid feels and not the mom.
God damn this is sad. Growing up as a kid, people would often tell me how savage the ancient cultures were for stoning storing to death an adulterer. But the truth is we are the savage ones, we are the evil ones for not punishing something that can literally make not one, but multiple people go completely insane to the point of killing themselves. THIS is WORSE than rape, in fact, I guarantee you that the father would rather get raped, fuck rape, he'd rather be tortured, than have to go through such a horrible experience.
Adulterers deserve life in prison if not death, this is not harsh, or immoral, this is us having mercy, sparing the children and the fathers from something that no human being should go through.
Leviticus 20:10 NIV — “ ‘If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife—with the wife of his neighbor—both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death.
We already have a book of law outlining laws for more civil societies.
Study the 613 laws of the scriptures (subtract all the sacrificial laws) and learn that most of them will likely make sense to you.
They knew what would happen in a society where these laws weren't followed.
I think the better solution is to simply not allow it to happen in the first place.
Only agree to marry a woman, if she agrees to have paternity test for every child born. If the DNA doesn't match, it's a divorce.
However, I have a feeling that signing up such an agreement with a woman and expecting the agreement to be honored in court is like expecting a prenup agreement to be honored. It's gonna be a very long shot...
Adulterer neither deserve mercy nor chance to hear their point of view. They are manipulator and destroyer unfortunately society thinks cheating is sexual liberation. Its man's fault if his wife cheated. You don't give her time, care for her blah blah
I saw one like that last week but it was a dad with two daughters who sided with the mom in the divorce and treated dad like crap. There were his bio kids though if I remember correctly.
As a kid, my dad was loyal to my mother and never talked shit behind her back. My mother - a better woman than most I have met - had plenty of divisive things to say about my dad. Women tend to manipulate relationships for their own gain, while men tend to keep the kids out of their problems.
As you said in the title it's all the woman's fault for lying, but as always she won't be the one paying for the consequences. She will probably not care for the boy's mental health and simplynlook for a new hookup on the tag where are all the good men
Damn that's fucked up, feel sorry for the Dude and the kid, but I'd say that dude has the right to just get the fuck away, how can you ask a man to keep caring for and raising a kid that will forever remind him of the fake life he was tricked into living, no way. Hell no, fck all those btches no man deserves to lose his sanity over a pussy
[–]Docbear6475 points76 points77 points (9 children) | Copy Link
That's heartbreaking and I can't blame either the boy for wanting the man that's been his father his whole life to come back or the man who just found out his sons entire life and his relationship was a lie .
She's destroyed both of their lives for some fun with the side dick .
[–]RationalMenWin[S] 49 points50 points51 points (8 children) | Copy Link
If you read the comments there are still plenty who still blame the dad for leaving. It's his right, even if its unfair to the kid.
[–]locomotronn32 points33 points34 points (3 children) | Copy Link
It’s such a double edged sword. Like fuck. Paternity fraud has got to be one of the absolute worst things you can do to a man and the offspring, boy or girl.
Shit should be up there with murder. No women should feel safe after having that out there
[–]RationalMenWin[S] 21 points22 points23 points (2 children) | Copy Link
It's all apart of the wonderful gynocentric society we've help build. Yass queen!
[–]FutureSquall2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
And their knights who will sell their soul for a whiff.
[–]wildfireboat1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Mandatory Paternity Tests?
I'm in.
[–]Docbear6419 points20 points21 points (3 children) | Copy Link
I bet , Dad should just MAN UP and endure the fact he's spent years of his life caring for a child under false pretenses .
Can you imagine all the times people said " He has your eyes " or " You look just like your fathers" that the man now has to think about and replays in his mind over and over ?
Being a father is more than DNA sure but not when you have been told your kids whole life that they are the product of your love and relationship with someone who was secretly getting fucked behind your back .
His whole relationship and entire 17+ years has been a lie .
I'd run off and disappear too . to say I'd be shattered is an understatement.
[–]RationalMenWin[S] 19 points20 points21 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Absolutely. Many of the commentors act like the guy should just brush it off and pretend like nothing happened. As if every time that man looks at this kid he won't just be reminded that the relationship that he had was made up. But no, its all his fault for how this kid feels and not the mom.
[–]timleykis5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Just imagine if there is a knock on the door and a girl says, I am your 15-year-old daughter!
With the roles reversed all the white nights would tell the wife to leave... why should he be different and be told to man up?? double standards!!
[–]lethrowaway4me1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
... but that's where it starts.
[–]six-twosix31 points32 points33 points (4 children) | Copy Link
God damn this is sad. Growing up as a kid, people would often tell me how savage the ancient cultures were for stoning storing to death an adulterer. But the truth is we are the savage ones, we are the evil ones for not punishing something that can literally make not one, but multiple people go completely insane to the point of killing themselves. THIS is WORSE than rape, in fact, I guarantee you that the father would rather get raped, fuck rape, he'd rather be tortured, than have to go through such a horrible experience.
Adulterers deserve life in prison if not death, this is not harsh, or immoral, this is us having mercy, sparing the children and the fathers from something that no human being should go through.
[–]0signal04 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I wholeheartedly support the stoning of adulterers. After being lashed.
[–]immortal_coherence5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Leviticus 20:10 NIV — “ ‘If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife—with the wife of his neighbor—both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death.
We already have a book of law outlining laws for more civil societies.
Study the 613 laws of the scriptures (subtract all the sacrificial laws) and learn that most of them will likely make sense to you.
They knew what would happen in a society where these laws weren't followed.
[–]RRFdev2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I think the better solution is to simply not allow it to happen in the first place.
Only agree to marry a woman, if she agrees to have paternity test for every child born. If the DNA doesn't match, it's a divorce.
However, I have a feeling that signing up such an agreement with a woman and expecting the agreement to be honored in court is like expecting a prenup agreement to be honored. It's gonna be a very long shot...
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Adulterer neither deserve mercy nor chance to hear their point of view. They are manipulator and destroyer unfortunately society thinks cheating is sexual liberation. Its man's fault if his wife cheated. You don't give her time, care for her blah blah
[–]redshieldheroz22 points23 points24 points (5 children) | Copy Link
The story of the illegitimate son who his dad refuses to pay for his college because he not his bio son was few days ago also, trending on reddit.
You know that the world is clown. How many thousand childs of chad/tyrone out there did you think? Because of some nasty hypergamy.
[–]RationalMenWin[S] 15 points16 points17 points (3 children) | Copy Link
I saw one like that last week but it was a dad with two daughters who sided with the mom in the divorce and treated dad like crap. There were his bio kids though if I remember correctly.
[–]redshieldheroz13 points14 points15 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Thats sad man. Two daughters will take the role model of divorce mom.
[–]RationalMenWin[S] 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
AKA Toxic Femininity.
[–]WaywardStag3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
As a kid, my dad was loyal to my mother and never talked shit behind her back. My mother - a better woman than most I have met - had plenty of divisive things to say about my dad. Women tend to manipulate relationships for their own gain, while men tend to keep the kids out of their problems.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes and people blamed the dad for leaving but it was fault of his mother. She had enough time to break the news to the kid but she hadn't.
[–]Banincoming20 points21 points22 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The father never had kids of his own because he was tricked into raising someone else's for 18 years. He had that stolen from him.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
As you said in the title it's all the woman's fault for lying, but as always she won't be the one paying for the consequences. She will probably not care for the boy's mental health and simplynlook for a new hookup on the tag where are all the good men
[–]timleykis4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
sorry but your mother is a slut
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Guy knows he is infertile, suddenly he has a kid and doesn't suspect anything, at that point it should have been common sense
[–]Akatosh1782 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn that's fucked up, feel sorry for the Dude and the kid, but I'd say that dude has the right to just get the fuck away, how can you ask a man to keep caring for and raising a kid that will forever remind him of the fake life he was tricked into living, no way. Hell no, fck all those btches no man deserves to lose his sanity over a pussy
[–]HalcyonAbraham1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
surprise!!. the thread is removed. fucking mods