Are your married/engaged friends jealous of you and don’t invite you to come over so often?

DangZagnut · 2018-12-27T02:28:58+00:00

In my experience, you get classified as an undesirable by the wife/girl looking for beta buxx.

Satan speaking through me, tries to explain to these men why they should get divorced, dump the bitch, etc, while they mope into their beer about how the bitch is emotionally abusing him.

So I'm not allowed around, because once you're in that kind of relationship the woman decides how long you're allowed to stay out, who you can be friends with, etc., because these idiots love to be shackled for reasons I can't even begin to understand.

So jetting off around the world, going on cruises, hitting the Bahamas, Vegas, fishing, jet skiing, going to a blue sail out into the ocean, is all non-starters because he's not allowed out of the house. He can only have "approved" friends, ie, her friends, and they most be hooked to a woman to monitor anything that might be confused as "fun".

The goal is to keep him miserable and dependent so that ATM will keep producing, and since my personal amusement is to channel the devil to push that shit over, I'm not allowed around them.

DWShimoda · 2018-12-27T03:07:15+00:00

They box the compass...

On the one hand, yeah they ARE jealous of many things (that I retired in my mid 40's; that all of my shit is paid for; that I have time & tools & toys to basically do whatever I want... and no one to "answer to" {much less beg permission from})...

On the other hand, most of them rather obviously COULDN'T handle it -- they themselves state that "I don't know HOW you can live alone... that'd drive me bonkers..." and etc. (Some of them, frankly can't cook, don't know shit about much of anything other than their corporate job; don't really DO much of anything other than work, eat, sleep, shit/shower/shave & off to work again... and with some, they even have serious problems getting to sleep if/when they are the only person in their house {like if wife/kids are gone some night}... the being the dog inside, even have it lay alongside or ON the bed.)

As to the invites... generally not frequent; but I'm pretty much fine with that, since their households are usually so damned noisy & chaotic I can only take so much of it anyway... so an hour or two visit every couple of months give me more than my "fill."

ppdeny · 2018-12-27T02:47:00+00:00

Wives know that we'll directly or indirectly spill the beans and give their husbands a whiff of the bachelor life.

Go out whenever I want, drink beers without worrying somebody is gonna smell it on my mouth and get mad (seriously, a friends wife is so anal, my buddy drinks one beer and gargles his mouth with soda and water to get smell out), go to awesome events while they have interior design showcase events and tea parties, etc.

And sometimes I share crazy girl that I met stories with my married buddies and they are mostly wistful.

Yes, wives tend to corral their husbands. Go to craigslist and see how many guys sell their motorcycles because wife said so.

secondachiever · 2018-12-27T04:30:12+00:00

Yep! Used to have a couple of best buds who I never see now that I'm divorced. The wives control who they hang out with and invite over. Really sucks but seems to be the case with most. The guys helped me get over the breakup but once I'm not a 'couple' no more invites and they never get to hang out cause the wives make sure their schedules are full.

secondachiever · 2018-12-27T04:27:14+00:00

Yep! Used to have a couple of best buds who I never see now that I'm divorced. The wives control who they hang out with and invite over. Really sucks but seems to be the case with most.

krisdang111 · 2018-12-27T05:20:10+00:00

My friends don't jealous. But their wives don't want me to be around. They think I maybe some kind of a jinx to their relationship. Even the time when my ex and I needed 2 people as witnesses when signed the divorce paper, nobody wanted to come.

BadassGT-CS · 2018-12-27T05:42:28+00:00

Yes. Usually the wife doesn't want them to know how happy I am being single, and doing my own thing.

Sandbagicus · 2018-12-27T07:30:08+00:00

wives of my friends don't like me because they know I'm telling their husbands how much fun it is being divorced lol

MesaBoogeyMan · 2018-12-27T17:11:38+00:00

Absolutely, most of my friends hooked up with their high school gfs. Then they all kinda hung out together and had kids at the same time and lived the sake existence. I more or less lost touch with all of them. Couldnt handle how noisy their houses were and all the kid bday party crap. I socialize with my band guys but outside of that I love being alone!

Loban8990 · 2018-12-27T18:13:34+00:00

We could be the best of friends. But if you decided not to hang out with me because of your jealous wife I'll cut all ties. Life is too short to deal with other people's bullshit, when I have my own bullshit to deal with.

sedstar · 2018-12-27T10:42:13+00:00

Oh, i get invited over those places often enough? my problem is... a lot of the women? they somehow get the weird idea they can tell me "ZIP it!" like they are addressing their own kids or their blue pill husband.

I every once in a while PIPE UP when i have had enough? or, laugh and tell it like it is? It DOESNT go over very well, as i am sure you all know.

i limit my time "there" the more that stuff happens. its no loss to me. I might not be rich and traveling the world? but, i have learned to treat myself to the occasional hobby, toy, or time. and i fully enjoy it.

my young blue pill friend? is always BRAGGING how much MONEY he makes? Pffffft!!! he has none of it to much SHOW for it all, i tell you. I make WAY LESS, and i can buy myself better toys because i dont waste it all on cars and the house.

JUST decided "merry xmas to ME" and got myself a dual processor, 12 core, 48 gigs of RAM former server workstation, its a virtual computing "beast" if you're into building computers... next up? "daddy" is gonna treat himself to either a new MILLING machine, or, maybe a precision rifle... i honestly havent decided yet. My choice!

NONE of this was possible before i swallowed a jar of red pills, and let my blue pill cucked life slip away... and i dont miss it. My friends? i'm pretty sure they think i am just pretending i enjoy it like this. But? i honestly LOVE it. I dont have to MAKE big money, to treat myself to the things i used to worry about trying to afford.

battle_of_homme · 2018-12-27T11:49:13+00:00

Once I didn't want to hang out with my mate's GF and her friends.
Haven't heard from him since, 4 years now.
I realize it's not a big loss.

BP is like a drug addiction, you can't make people quit, they have to hit bottom and want to get clean themselves.

MR3790 · 2018-12-27T14:17:42+00:00

Once I got divorced and started banging 18-20 year old's your married friends are no longer allowed to hang out with you.

moneybeatslooks · 2018-12-27T16:30:12+00:00

married waymen even don’t want single/divorced waymen around coz they are competence. Only couples allowed.

Title	Are your married/engaged friends jealous of you and don’t invite you to come over so often?
Author	moneybeatslooks
Upvotes	29
Comments	24
Date	December 27, 2018 2:09 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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