I am a phlebotomist and see about 40 patients a day. I had one lady the other day who's husband died. She had the nerve to say "I can't believe he did this to me, left me alone and having to deal with his death." Like he willingly decided to die and of course she's the victim. He died and yet she's the victim. I wanted to say " You probably nagged him and stressed him to death" but I am a professional and want to keep my job. MGTOW is the way