Im still on the fence someone help me on this

mtamez1221 · 2018-12-21T03:00:23+00:00

Love is just a chemical reaction. Approach at your own risk. As far as kids, I wanted some of my own but I look at the current state in our society and I just think things will get worse. That’s just the external side, I feel it’s my moral responsibility not to forcefully bring a life into existence when it could potentially suffer mentally and emotionally.

DamienDaSaiyan · 2018-12-21T03:10:45+00:00

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filosophicalaardvark · 2018-12-21T02:54:00+00:00

Don't do it

[deleted] · 2018-12-21T03:35:35+00:00

Here some advice don't chase women, here want a kid, try adoption. Thought it kind of sticky. Look for an orphan. Then race that child as your own. Plan and simple.

StyleandSpeed · 2018-12-21T03:44:22+00:00

It's not you that wants kids. It's your genetics pushing you subconsciously to make copies of you.

It's just a dumb biological implant in your DNA.

SmartAdhesiveness · 2018-12-21T04:16:21+00:00

I have a son with my second wife. Fatherhood is the best experience of my life. Marriage after taking the red pill has been great.

Here are a few thoughts, in case they are valuable to you.

I wish I had known of the red pill before my first marriage.
The red pill helped me to set expectations for our relationship, and any future family, with my current wife, well before we were married.
That process of expectation setting helped her to see me as strong, as a leader, as an alpha.
I did not marry her until I was ready to have kids. (The only reason for a man to marry these days is to have children.) Also, I paid careful attention to the people she spent time with. She comes from a strong, intact family and is devoted them. She is great with her nieces. She volunteers to help children and the elderly.
I made sure my finances are secure.
She is much younger than I am.

Bottom line: All men should take the red pill. That doesn’t mean all men should go their own way. Instead it means they should be aware that they need to lead courageously.

lonewolfsigma8917 · 2018-12-21T07:47:58+00:00

Kids ? You could have a surrogate mother for kids. Sex ? You could get it from a local escort with enough of cuddling,role-playing as husband and wife,etc. What else do you need ??

[deleted] · 2018-12-21T16:06:17+00:00

“Don’t tell people what they want to hear, tell them what they need to know”. A quote I live by.

If you ever decide to have kids, go the surrogate route. Safest and most expensive at first but best option in the long run. Don’t get caught up on the family idea because it’s a lie, and like you stated you’ve seen a lot of good men destroyed by women.

801735 · 2018-12-21T03:01:01+00:00

Idea. ]=)

DamienDaSaiyan · 2018-12-21T03:10:52+00:00

You're in the wrong sub, try /r/relationship_advice

Title	Im still on the fence someone help me on this
Author	DamienDaSaiyan
Upvotes	4
Comments	17
Date	December 21, 2018 2:50 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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