Just ended it with gf

Marque01 · 2018-12-18T21:04:31+00:00

Before you sign. That birth certificate, demand a paternity test.

Most likely, that's not your kid.

There's my advice. Follow it. Start saving up now for it. The 2 grand you shovel out now is nothing compared to child support for someone else's kid

Red-Lantern · 2018-12-18T21:03:18+00:00

Get a lawyer. Paternity test. Try for joint custody. Good luck.

Doogie76 · 2018-12-18T21:15:29+00:00

Paternity test. Don't sign paperwork saying you are the dad until you get the results. Get a lawyer to send her a letter saying you want the paternity test and pending the results go from there and if the baby is yours then step up and be a dad.

Figure out now what your child support payments could be so it's not a shock but I'd go for joint custody so you don't have to pay child support. It's easier to get that will young kids.

Get an app on your phone that automatically records phone conversations in case she contacts you. Always have your phone recording her or a witness with you in case she goes batshit crazy.

Stay calm and never freak out no matter what shit she pulls. She most likely will not let you see your kid to get back at you. Just ride it out and get your lawyer to file

DangZagnut · 2018-12-18T21:07:26+00:00

I mean, we can tell you everything you did wrong, not that it'll help at this point.

It's not your son, it's her son, you have zero reproductive rights.

At best you can attempt to buy your way into spending time with him, but of course, you have to pay the mother to the hilt, because she can and will do anything and say anything for money since she's a lazy sow.

Maybe /r/legaladvice to see what your legal options are?

20182019_Throwaway · 2018-12-18T21:30:33+00:00

I will repeat what has been said. Hire a lawyer, tell your lawyer you would like to guarantee your girlfriend's unborn child is yours, and would like to minimize risk (time and financial loss) to yourself, and your child if it turns out to be yours. It is that simple.

If you do not do this, or you discount this advice as extreme, may fortune be with you.

PrestigiousStand · 2018-12-18T21:04:29+00:00

As long as you maintain child support for your future son and be in his life, you don't have to worry about the mother being part of your life. Just be there for your son.

MuaadDibJihad · 2018-12-18T21:47:53+00:00

You should have just finished on her face. It would have been more humane than bringing an unplanned baby into the world you can't afford. Lesson is: always finish on their face and stick a Brazzers logo on her chin for good measure.

[deleted] · 2018-12-18T23:10:06+00:00

First of all congratulations, now you can focus entirely on your projectsand projects and goals.. Secondly, the same people already told, paternity test + lawyer, if he is your kid, fight for him...

TheOriginalIRuleMe · 2018-12-19T02:42:53+00:00

Of course she didn't want to work, that's why she got you to knock her up.

Feminists wonder why we constantly go on about this shit, we're trying to head off these human casualties before they happen.

LetsStartFlame · 2018-12-18T21:15:51+00:00

Nice bro

DaveC111 · 2018-12-19T00:09:50+00:00

As some of the others said, lawyer up. Get ready to fight whether for your kid or against paying for one that isn't! It's going to be very shitty and very emotional no matter what happens. Be strong and keep coming back here. You've got a home here.

DrFeelFantastic · 2018-12-19T02:31:21+00:00

Terrible timing, man. If you believed the kid's yours', you should have slugged it out for at a few years, until the kid developed a personality, and you bonded with him. It's going to be tough to bond with a baby, that doesn't even recognise your voice from the womb much, when you don't have a relationship with the Mother. Try to keep it as good a relationship as is possible, with your ex, although that might be quite hard, given that you've left her while she's pregnant. If you have any doubts about paternity, you should get a test, once the baby is born. Don't sign the birth certificate unless you're sure it's yours', if you are sure, sign it. It'll give you parental rights even without marriage to the Mother.

Edit: if you're going to down vote, explain why you think the advice is bad / wrong. Simply not liking the truth isn't helpful.

TheOriginalIRuleMe · 2018-12-19T18:17:57+00:00

Any woman not willing to carry her weight, much less be a fucking responsible adult should HIT THE FUCKING BRICKS! I don't care HOW good the sex is. If she's the useless piece of shit... "here's your rollerskates, GTFO here!" Men need to stop allowing themselves to be a doormat for pussy. It's fucking sickening!

801735 · 2018-12-18T21:03:06+00:00

So It was recommended to come here.

Who lied to you? ]=)

Idk wha else to put on here so if anyone has any questions just ask and I’ll get to them

Does every (2n-2)-vertex tournament contain as a subgraph every n-vertex oriented tree?

Im_Talking · 2018-12-18T21:24:00+00:00

All I read is you complaining. You need to man-up.

Title	Just ended it with gf
Author	justanotherthrowawty
Upvotes	28
Comments	40
Date	December 18, 2018 9:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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