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[–]NeoreactionSafe2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR INNER BELIEFS
Real confidence comes from being real with yourself.
And the time tested way is the Trivium Method:
Open minded on evidence.
Close minded on thinking.
Share your wisdom.
If you just keep applying that discipline year after year your sense of being "real" increases because you are deciding on reality based on your own thinking.
What destroys confidence is imitation. (Blue Pill emotional programming)
When you are "fake" it's because you are attempting to imitate another guy based on superficial clues. This will create a PUA, but not true confidence.
It's okay to "fake it until you make it" but just realize that you should be trying to make it to be "real" along the way.
Don't fake it and not be doing the Trivium Method to become real on the side.
You can do things in parallel.
[–]CollectivePsychosis points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I forget where I heard this, but, when you act more open/expressive/confident you unconsciously give permission to those around you to do the same. eg, lead by example
[–]aswjacob[S] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truth! That has been my experience.
[–]HashiramaSama1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Would be great if mods state why the article is removed. This way, if a person who has read the article already, knows what was made it invalid.
[–]raizo871 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Why is this deleted? The content is gold!
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