The male mode of communication is focused on sharing knowledge, techniques and fixing problems. It is very much centered on the "facts about things" mode of communication, where two or more men attempt to solve a problem through mutual sharing of information with as little emotional baggage as possible. For illustrative purposes, a research paper in a STEM field is this male mode of communication in the most pure form. Almost purely factual, no emotion involved, every fact is supported by citations, and any form of ambiguity is removed.

The female mode of communication is focused on emotional experiences, self-exploration and self-actualization. It is very much centered on the "Emotional reaction to events or things", where two or more women attempt to share and communicate not only the fact or event, but the context and emotional reaction to those events or things. Roosh refers to this as "rambling", which comes from the observation that two women can talk about something for an hour without any meaningful information (judged from the male perspective) being conveyed.

I used to work in tech support during college, and an observation among the staff was that a woman with a tech problem could take 10 - 20 minutes to explain a simple problem, without even mentioning what the problem was. She would explain how her day had been and what her emotional state was before, during and after the problem, the context of the problem, and why the problem was upsetting to her. On the other hand the male tech support report usually consisted of "The damn thing doesn't work".

At this point, you should see how the male form of communication is the antithesis to the female mode of communication. Females crave emotional triggers, they relish exploring themselves and are always looking to actualize themselves as "better women", defined as more emotionally realized women. However more importantly, when attempting to sell yourself in the sexual market place, the information about the product being shared must be the type of information that the customer views as salient, and presented in a manner that appeals to the customer.

Another way of putting this, the male mode of communication is centered on logos, to the exclusion of ethos and pathos, whereas women are scarcely interested in, or capable of appreciating logos, but are suckers for ethos and pathos.

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