Why do men who want to commit turn me off, and why do I only want unattainable men?

31 points90 commentssubmitted by squashpuddy to r/dating_advice

Whenever I start talking to someone new, if they seem TOO into me too fast, I get cagey and back off. Even if I think I DO like them, they tend to come on too strong and I lose all feelings. But then I'll fall head-over-heels for the guys who can't or don't want to commit.

What gives??? What's wrong with me?