20m, my life is a wreck. ridicule me under the guise of "tough love"

afkinwhitemale · 2017-07-18T23:12:15+00:00

Stop watching porn. Watch this
Start taking cold showers. Watch this
Clean your room and sort your life out problem by problem.

These may sound like memes but if you're not a faggot who just came here for attention you will do all of them and they will work. For starters you're undoing the immense damage porn has done to your brain (dopamine, androgen receptors, depression). Two, you're training your willpower and learning to be comfortable while being uncomfortable; immensely beneficial. And three is self explanatory if you listen.

I'm a person who has been in a deeper hole than any other person on this sub and got myself out of it.

SlothOnRoids · 2017-07-19T00:16:53+00:00

The excessive masturbating is detrimental to your energy levels. Cut it out. Use that sexual energy when you do go out in public and you'll be surprised to learn it just might give you the confidence to approach a fat bitch and just possibly get laid.

I bet you've yet to max out or even attempt to max out in key areas of your life. I have no idea how long you've been lifting but I can tell you for sure it takes YEARS of hard consistent training and diet to attain an outstanding physique. It's surely worth it, believe me. I went from 178 pounds to 230 pounds and the difference is night and day of how people receive me and how I am treated. Where are you financially? Deepening your pockets and attaining a fulfilling career will boost your motivation and confidence. Basically, snowball effect. Doing outstanding in one area will in theory roll into many other areas in your life. Put all your energy into mastering any one area in your life and I'm sure you can get over this depression hump.

GOATmar · 2017-07-19T01:25:38+00:00

Who cares about sleeping so much? Enjoy it, sleep is good for you. If you can, sleep as much as you can on the days you are free. No need to hate yourself for sleeping so much. Besides you say you work out? You need a lot more sleep than the average to maximize rest & gains.

This isn't a flaw of yours ya fool, it's your body telling you rest and grow for the next workout session.

However, I read your words and I can tell your IQ is too high for you to enjoy life. Dumb yourself down. Find amusement in everything. High IQ is a curse, and Ignorance is Bliss.

The world is created for and caters to the strong, barbaric, mindless Horde we call "the average population."

Tell your ego to suck a dick, dumb yourself wayyy down, and start indulging in the shitshow. This way, when the degeneration culture/age passes (it will pass), you at least have a solid chance in parting in the rebuilding of civilization where everything will be G.O.O.D.

love being possible only for men

Men love women. Women love their children. Children love puppies. Puppies love toys.

Complaining about this irrevocable Law of Life is like complaining about not being able to spread wings and fly at will, or that water is wet.

Smokerbank · 2017-07-19T02:02:15+00:00

The thing is, you don't want help, you want to whine and rant endlessly and for a bunch of people to come and feel sorry for you and confirm your twisted view of the world and how nothing's ever your fault. I've been and probably still am you. The sad thing is, you're right yet only partially, but it doesn't matter, even if your hopelessness would be entirely justified (it isn't, trust me) it wouldn't be an excuse to be like this. There are a lot things that are probably your fault like being in shit shape (unless you show me a medical report that states that you are broken and no matter how much you eat you won't gain weight you should stop bitching because you aren't broken, you're just doing it wrong) and many others, it's these things that you should he focusing on.

Everyone has things that affect them without anything they can do about it, its how much we change the things we can change that proves how strong we are. Here comes the red pill, everyone gets hurt by women and their actions, red pill teaches us what to do about it.

bakerizer · 2017-07-18T22:56:46+00:00

Fool low key you jack your dick too much which take all your energy away when you nut. I'm in my mid twenties I been jacking my dick for over thirteen years that shit kills all my energy. Hell im addicted to that fap shit I killed some citizens of spermville today. All jokes aside your energy,brain and pheromones depend on you abstain from fucking your self.

OneRedYear · 2017-07-19T01:39:34+00:00

Son. You are young enough to fix what ever problems you have. And you ahve the energy of youth to do it with. Nobody can do it for you, it's up to you. Millions of men have done the things you want to do, so go do it. You have no one to depend on but yourself and no one to blame. Good luck.

linso28 · 2017-07-19T01:41:01+00:00

Get back up bro. We believe in you

victordmor · 2017-07-19T02:50:10+00:00

Before you start to do anything, learn DISCIPLINE, with discipline you can achieve everything else in life. Just my two cents. Don't give up, brother.

2017-07-19T03:06:33+00:00

Go to the nofap sub and come back when you've done 90 days. I can't say this strongly enough.
If you're feeling suicidal, for god sake don't ask people on the internet for advice. Get a therapist or go to your GP for some meds.
You need to learn to deeply love yourself - almost fall in love with yourself. You will not attract anyone until you do this.
Look up Jordan Peterson's lectures on YouTube.
Meditate everyday and train yourself to notice when you're having sexual/negative thoughts and push them away. This takes a long time to do automatically, but you'll be surprised at how fresh you feel after a couple of months.
I've no idea what to do about being skinny. Ask a bodybuilding sub. That said, it's better to be skinny than a fat fuck.
At the moment you are a weak beta male, trolling for sympathy and cuddles. Understand you can permanently change who you are, but it'll take a lot more effort than you imagine.
Read this: https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/
Try reading crappy page turner novels - they'll get you back into the habit of reading: early Stephen King, Lee Child etc. Read actual paper books, not from a kindle (the light messes with your sleep patterns), before you go to sleep.
Having a girlfriend will not solve your problems. I understand the feeling you need to lose your virginity, but women make your life ten times more complicated.
Back to point number 1. You realize that masturbation is fucking up your life or you wouldn't have mentioned it. This needs to be your priority.

Streik23 · 2017-07-18T23:31:25+00:00

Dude, Man up or do a stunt when you jump off the building.

Follow the guidelines of TRP as they are meant to be followed. If you are not happy change, change for the better, be your better self.

sbudbud · 2017-07-19T00:14:23+00:00

What were you hoping to get from posting this?

NakedAndBehindYou · 2017-07-19T08:22:14+00:00

TRP is not the place for ranting about how much your life sucks. There are plenty of self-help subreddits that would be better for that. If your depression is serious then my only advice is to consider getting on meds for it. They got rid of my depression and I then had the clarity that I needed to deal with other issues in life.

Title	20m, my life is a wreck. ridicule me under the guise of "tough love"
Author	bakerizer
Upvotes	0
Comments	31
Date	July 18, 2017 10:38 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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