I've been seeing a couple post floating around asktrp lately of guys getting girls to make out with them, mess around with them. But they can't get laid. The women seem interested enough to open up, then shut down or flake next time around. Why does this happen? 2 reasons.

The more obvious better known reason

1. She's giving you LMR and you're handling it wrong

There's a lot of information about this in the side bar so I won't go into too much detail about this one but, she's giving you last minute resistance and you're either taking it as a no and falling back right away. Or failing her shit/comfort test.

The best way to handle this in my experience is ignore what she's saying. Back off, act cool, like nothing happened and try again later.

Example:

Making out with HB8 and start to kiss her neck.

Her: we're not having sex

You: keep kissing and either ignore her or say. "Hmm I know"

Start to reach down into her pants and she stops you.

Her: staaap (moans and pulls your hand away)

You: back off and continue to talk/flirt/make her laugh/kiss her.

Then start kissing her neck. And then maybe play with her tits. Then suck on them and kiss down her stomach but come back up. Play with her. Take it slow but a little further each time. 3 "stops" is a no. But a straight stern NO is a no. (Make sure you know the difference.) De-escalate and escalate.

Another less talked about reason.

2. You're escalating too fast/aggressively and not allowing the story to play out in her head.

TRP always talks about women wanting it to be your fault, or for sex to "just happen." This goes especially for a bar hook up. Women want the night to just happen and pan out like a romantic movie.

Imagine you're watching a movie. And fast forward right to the end. What is the fun in that? There's no emotion in that. You want to start with the beginning, the mystery, the build up, the twists and turns. The climax and then the ending.

That's what makes a good movie and that's what makes a women want to continue to spend time with you and get comfortable enough to fuck you. It creates emotion.

She has this movie planned out in her head and if you go ahead and try to force sex right away it's like fast forwarding to the end of the movie. No emotion, she knows how it ends, without even watching it. That's not exciting for her. And it's not exciting for you either because you're not getting to the end of the movie.

So what's the solution?

Have fun. Meet her, show her your personality and manliness. Then leave. Then run into her again take her on the dance floor. Go find your friends or go to the bathroom. Then Ask her to step outside with you. Be really into her. Then go flirt with other women. Go get a drink with her. Make her buy the first round and you buy the second. Ask her if she wants to go on an adventure. If she's hesitant. Tell her to come get food with you.

Skip food and take her to the nearest park, tell her you have something cool to show her and take her there. Steal something little from somewhere and give it to her. Make out with her. Run ahead of her, make her catch up. Give her a piggyback ride. Tell her you're still hungry and will go home and make tacos. (Never make it about sex). My place has a sick roof that over looks the town that's always my go to, to get them back.

Once back,escalate and it should be home stretch from there. If not, refer to step one.

Disclaimer: I know the herd of neckbeards are going to say it's too much work to get pussy. You don't have to do all that. That's just giving you some examples of what to do. Do you own thing, you're the director.

If you think doing that is too much work. Then you might as well say breaking through LMR is too much work also.

The key here is to be having fun for yourself, create your own movie. You're the director. Instead of your normal boring walk, cab home. Go have some fun and get laid.