When my mom was in her 30's-40's I had no significant problems with her.

But now it is unbearable to be around her:

  • constant nagging, creating unnecessary drama, playing the victim in her drama after starting it

  • obseity/pretending to want to eat healthy and start exercising again but then 2 weeks later buying junk food

  • snoring loudly all night (i could here it from the basement) and drinking like a sailor

  • obsession with decorating the house and/or cleaning the house for perfection

  • Headache inducing complaining and dwelling on minor issues from OVER ten years in the past

  • Victim mentality

My Dad is not much better. He always white knighted against me (even beat me a couple times over trivial things girls lied about that I did such as throwing snowballs at them). And basically did everything that he could to emasculate me.

At this point in my life I avoid them as much as possible. Getting prepared to move and won't tell them where.