Forget the stats that claim anything from 20-35% of people cheat. Also forget the notion of classic cheaters vs faithful women.
What I am about to tell you is true, all of this comes from first-hand experience and when not I will make sure to annotate it and claim the source.
2 things you need to be aware of though. 1 is the medical field is rife with infidelity, more so than some other careers and before I start also need to mention the Czech Republic (where this took place) is a nation plagued with infidelity.
My partner who is a nurse cheated on me, and out of all the nurses she works within her department, absolutely every one of them has had an affair (at work with a doctor) except 1.
This is not to say this one that hasn't is completely innocent. She also from time to time acts like a complete slut, only that to my knowledge she hasn't escalated this to sex.
So according to this demographic 90% of them have had sexual affairs at work.
Now it gets worse because about a 1/3 of these have had multiple affairs (and even with the same doctors). There are 7 doctors working there. 3 of these doctors have been involved in long-term affairs with (at least) 2 nurses.
The worst offender is the head sister (yeah wonder how she got her promotion) -> Couldn't make this shit up. She's always got something on the side. In her case though, the suspicion isn't who she's fucking, but who else she is fucking. Besides her affairs, she also has flings, one-night stand sex, etc.
About a year ago I was clueless to all of this. Then one weekend my partner goes to this conference and tells me they'll spend the Friday (just nurses) drinking wine and talking shit. She even sends me some photos on WhatsApp of some them looking rather bored, just a regular mundane evening.
What she didn't know is I had installed Cerberus App on her phone and was using it to listen in on the microphone. In addition, I had access to photos that were taken throughout the evening.
Cut a long story short, that night a doctor showed up, they all got horribly drunk, he kissed (and I mean made out) with virtually all of them, including my partner. He had many of them taking turns sitting on his lap, and I swear I heard him motorboating one.
Whole evening the talk was primarily just about sex, sexual innuendos, sexual jokes, and I never heard a scrap of normal conversation. Anytime the conversation seemed to be getting normal, it was magically steered back to being flirty and overly sexual.
Just prior to going to bed at 2am he made out with my partner and had his hands under her shirt feeling off her tits. He was telling her shit like the only purpose of my tongue is to kiss your nipples. That night she wouldn't let him though.
However he had far more luck with another nurse there, a nurse whose husband did some work on our house. He actually fucked her. He fucked her while the others listened in from another room, laughing and joking about it.
Important here is that, if I didn't have the audio spy, I would never have suspected a thing, they actually woke up early the next day as planned and climbed the mountain, even after being up till 2:30 am drinking. Her demeanor on the phone the next day didn't give off a hint of the night before.
All the photos that got taken were swiftly deleted, and she thought I was unaware, because not in a million years would she have guessed her phone was bugged.
That's when I started questioning everything. It very nearly broke us up, and since then there have been some severe restrictions on who she goes out with. Sure she's free to go and do everything, but I've told her if she goes, I won't be here when she gets back.
But I started digging, and continued to spy too, and checked every email, and that's when I discovered all this junk on these nurses.
There's more, and there's more fine details, but this is the overview which to me was extremely disturbing to find out that affairs aren't happening here and there - but rather they're the rule, it's almost a given if you get into a relationship your so called faithful wife will cheat on you all it takes is opportunity.
