Went to a cook out at a friend's condo.

We were sitting at the pool and guy's wife points out a couple. She says to me, "He washes all her clothes and cooks her meals and they are not married and do not live together."

I just said, "What! He's a sucker."

The woman is over weight with big saggy tits. Her face is not bad but her body is attached to it. She has a young son (around 10) and is getting child support from her previous husband. She comes over to say hi and mentions something about the child support arrears to the women in our group. My sense of disgust grew.

Flash forward ten minutes and the woman's 10 year old son is telling some 10 year old girls in the pool to shut up. They are all just playing. The woman tells her son to get out of the pool cause time to go. One of the girls keeps yelling, "get out John! get out."

THEN... white knight boyfriend laudrymat goes to the edge of the pool and starts yelling at the girls. He said something along the lines of, "you girls are all bullies and you're bullying this boy and I don't want to see anymore of that again, ok? They are ignoring him bc 10 year old girls, right? So, then he ratches it up a notch and gets really angry and yells, "WE ARE GOING TO HAVE A NICE SUMMER! YOU ARE GOING TO BE NICE!!" His voice was cracking and everything, he was so mad. Here's this guy in his early 40's yelling at some 3rd graders because??? to impress a cow? or why?

Do not be this guy.