How to ask a woman if she's up for being my girlfriend who's seen me at my weakest?

TheDreadnought1 · 2017-09-09T14:29:03+00:00

I also don't want our friendship to become strained if I ask her.

Wait, wait. If I understood it right: do you want to make this girl your LTR but you aren't even fucking or at least of the least making out with her? You don't even know if she actually has a boyfriend or so?

Dude, 1st, you don't need to "retribute" in any way for the fact that she helped you when you were down. This feeling of retribution and excessive thankfulness will only make you seem more beta. So if your objective with her is fucking and eventually LTRing, try it and if it fail, ghost and go get other girls who want you. This kind of man-to-man friendship when deep down the man wants to lay/LTR the girl NEVER works out, and you will always be on the weaker side of the rope.

2nd, DON'T EVEN TRY TO LTR SOMEONE YOU HAVEN'T GONE TO BED WITH. Holy shit this is something elementary. Just the fact that you try to ask her to be you gf without even making out with her make you seem totally unconfident, needy, like a 12yo in mid school.

3rd, for god's sake, GO READ THE FKN SIDEBAR DAMNIT

RedOnArrival · 2017-09-09T14:44:30+00:00

questions go to AskTRP. also, read the sidebar. this post makes it clear you have no idea what this sub is about.

Title	How to ask a woman if she's up for being my girlfriend who's seen me at my weakest?
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Date	September 9, 2017 2:09 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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