I'd like to have MGTOW friends IRL, but how?

thomal46 · 2019-05-26T12:24:43+00:00

Reality always wins so when they Make complaints that are typical... that's when you red pill them under the guise of having sympathy...

tw-1234a · 2019-05-26T11:52:16+00:00

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Texian_Fusilier · 2019-05-26T12:49:38+00:00

Recruit them, I've redpilled a few people

account4189 · 2019-05-26T14:24:32+00:00

I don't really have many red pill friends except those that have been bent over by divorce court or had bad experiences with women. Blue pill tastes good if you've never had to deal with the unpleasant aspects of female nature.

In this vein, it's hard to get an apex male to have sympathy for what the majority of men have to deal with from women and from the social world at large. They see things from a certain perspective where people are kissing their ass or giving them shit, much like a woman, and they don't have a lot of sympathy for the invisible people that make their station possible (again, much like a woman.)

edit: that said, apex men are often very red-pilled about female nature, they just tend not to care a lot about women or men in my experience. since they're at the top, there's not a whole to make them think of anything but themselves.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2019-05-26T14:40:32+00:00

It is dangerous for men to publicly identify as MGTOW, but I think it’s possible to run into them on occasion. The best way to embody the philosophy is by example of living well and focusing on what is really important.

Explaining away relationships is trivial. I have my kids half the time, and with work and other responsibilities, I have “no time to even give a relationship a fair chance.” Nobody has disputed this reasoning yet.

CAYF · 2019-05-26T14:15:04+00:00

Sorry this is long but my boys have helped me a lot these last 3 weeks and I described all of them to a T

Tldr: Sort of, 2 purple pill friends, 2 red pill friends,but all 4 of them are working on paving their own way.

I asked this question like last week I remember.

So I been learning about the red pill/mgtow for almost a year now. After getting out that was probably my first question to myself. I knew a lot of the path is going to be walked alone. But at the same time I didn't want to be alone due to the fact that while im very much over the girl at this point (I literally just packed all my shit and moved it into storage thursday, currently couch surfing for the next 2 months). I'm still not emotionally stable. Like the rage phase is needing to fully take its course and I don't want to do anything stupid.

With that being said I've definitely got good support. Literally all of my friends that I confide in are redpill/purple pill

The thing is some of them don't know about mgtow/red pill.

My purple pill friend and I have a lot of conversations about relationships etc. Tbh if it wasn't for him I probably wouldn't have the clarity to realize I was in a bullshit situation and id never have left. I only call him purple pill because he makes the decision to not have sex unless he is a relationship. It's a wierd concept. With that being said I've also known this guy 10 years and one thing I can say about him is pussy definitely has chased him over the years. He's always turning down females. I ask him why not just go into something non committed and he says because even if he was remotely interested in a female only based on her looks, he feels it is too much of a risk to only be with her for sex. He says it never ends up only about sex. He has also never cohabitated with a female. But he also says that he sabotaged pretty much all his relationships due to prioritizing himself and not investing much in his relationships. I can confirm this as the many nights we'd be crashed out and some female knocking on the door yelling and screaming.

The more I think about it he is kinda going about it in his own way.

Got another friend who lives with his girlfriend and daughter. We slowly been talking more and more because we work out together with our barber. I went over to his house on Friday to pick something up and talked to him about how I moved out. I was like, "Man I learned my lesson with this one." That boy took one look at me and said, "mgtow bro." We have been texting each other videos since.

Thought it was badass that the word is spread out this far.

My Barber is a cool person. He's definitely red pilled. I forgot exactly the thing he believes in but he pretty much has multiple plates. He doesn't call it that though, he talks to multiple different girls and he doesn't let them have sex with anyone other then himself. I told him theres no way they'd be down with that permanently. He says they usually get replaced once they start holding out on the energy he requires.

Got another friend who is currently in a fairly bad predicament similar to myself except he has 3 kids and 2 different bms. He takes care of his kids but has been fucked over pretty bad by both the moms. They pretty much got him on child support and he works his ass off. They use him for sex while they have boyfriends etc. He has been to jail behind these females multiple times. He has the most bluepilled tendencies out if all of them because he is entertaining these females with sex when he should be cutting ties with them except in regards to the children. But I almost thing that he knows if he doesn't fuck them then they will retaliate in a way that will make his situation worse. There have been plenty of times where he would just ghost disappear for a couple of days and I think it's so he can get away from everyone/everything.

These 4 guys been a good support for me these last couple weeks. While not everyone is perfect, all 4 scenarios have a certain element of the acknowledgement that there is something you need to protect yourself from when it comes to female nature.

2019-05-26T17:56:17+00:00

If you are not with women then automatically you are against them and for that you can easily lose your job and career. Mgtow is a secret war, other men will understood your choice when it's too late.

2019-05-26T21:32:40+00:00

You call a horn and all the men in the vicinity turn to you and nod in unison.

Jk, honestly I have no idea, ironically most of my friends are women of various different backgrounds, religions, beliefs, etc. Would be nice to make some guy friends but I just have no clue how to make male friends.

Title	I'd like to have MGTOW friends IRL, but how?
Author	thenibelung
Upvotes	11
Comments	9
Date	May 26, 2019 11:50 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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